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| I have not been in a relationship in 8 years. I have chosen to focus on myself more than someone else because of circumstances with my previous marriage. I honestly don't know if I'm ready to try again, but I'm dipping a toe into the waters to see if it is time. I do miss the rules, the control, the 'feeling' that being with someone 'in charge' affords. I miss being with someone that cares and loves me and vice versa.
I have a job where I have to be in control of everyone around me at all times. I have only been in this current position for about a year and honestly, it exhausts me. I need the release of letting go of control when I'm not at work. I absolutely love my job...but...
I also had my big 5 0 not too long ago and I do not want to wait until I'm 60 or older to find someone that is a perfect fit for me. With that said, I'm also not going to rush into anything. I want to do this right and searching for someone online is tedious and takes time since you have to sort through all of the fakes out there.
I will not immediately send you a ton of pictures. I will not immediately talk to you on the phone or Skype with you. I will certainly not immediately meet you in person. I will go about this at my own pace and if you have a problem with that, you are probably not the person for me. I will however, do all of these things at some point. After all, I want to make sure you are who you say you are as well before I actually fall for you. Being lied to, played with or hurt is not something I have time for.
I will give a little hint on getting to know me better. Grab the attention and hold the attention of mind and you will have all of me.
I'm not looking to be anyone's slave. I'm looking for more of a Taken in Hand relationship. I'm more about the rules, control, guidelines, rewards and punishments to make both of our lives easier, so if you decide to write to me, please tell me how you view/feel about this.
Please don't just send and email saying 'hi' or 'how are you today'. Actually have something to say and please mention the Taken in Hand comment above or I most likely will not write you back. It just means you didn't take the time to actually read my profile.
I'm on my computer all of the time for work, but that does not mean I can interact ALL of that time. Just thought I would throw that out there. :)
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