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A lot of people who know me would probably describe me as "dominant". I'm confident, I know where I'm headed, and I know what I want. But other than past girlfriends, I don't think any of them would associate that with any kind of kink. Which is how I like it: behind closed doors.
It isn't just that some people might not understand or might be judgmental. It's more that it simply isn't any of their damned business what I and my partner are doing in the bedroom. Plus, having that kind of secret is kind of hot, no?
Don't get me wrong: in the bedroom is not the only place that I'm dominant. I've got a strong personality, and I see sexuality affecting every aspect of a serious relationship. But that should only be apparent to the two of us, so no silly, arbitrary speech rules or behavior restrictions. I think a dominant who needs to rely on those cues is probably more insecure that he'd care to admit.
Anyway, I'm looking for someone with whom I can have an awesome vanilla relationship who is also looking for something a little (okay, quite a bit) kinkier in private.
Some FYI stuff:
- I'm strictly monogamous.
- I've got a professional career, so not only is discretion important, but I'm not really willing or able to move right now.
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