YAY Profile overhaul - ‘bout time no? My profile is mostly about what I want from this lifestyle. If you want to know about me/my personal life feel free to ask. Also I tend to get a lot of random friend requests, most of which never send me any kind of message, so they are just ignored. If you do find me interesting, even just a little, send me a message and I’ll be happy to accept a friend request if you have a filled out profile or if we’ve been having an interesting convo together through mail and/or a group on .

I like to think I’m an awesome, fun loving, and adventurous woman~ Sure I have random bouts of depression sometimes, and honestly use a lot to rant about things that upset me, but I also rant about things that I like! To get it out of the way though, yes I was assigned male at birth (which translates to I’m a trans woman) but I consider myself to be entirely female. Meaning that it is upsetting when someone messages me saying “Wow you are really cute! You’re the first man I’ve found attractive” or “I’m not actually gay but I found you cute for some reason!” Sadly I have gotten messages like that a few times… But anyways, now that that is out of the way on to happier and hopefully more interesting aspects of this revamped profile!

My hard limits that have been established thus far include (but are not limited too as I am constantly learning):

Scat and kids or any kind of roleplay where kids are involved in theory (although a high school level kind of age would probably be fine).

Permanent scarring or really any mark that is going to last awhile. Bruise me all you want, they may take awhile but they’ll be gone in a month. I don’t want scars all over though, I have enough random flings with body image is at is~

Cutting hair. Didn’t really even consider this could be a limit till someone brought it up. Honestly my hair does not grow very fast and is very important to me and my image of myself. Not only would I be somewhat emotionally devastated, which is definitely no longer fun for anyone, but I would likely not talk to that person ever again - even if it was an accident of some kind.

I also really don’t like any kind of marks/bruises on my face. Biting my neck is completely fine and encouraged though if we’re already playing where sex might be an option later.

Also going back to my intro, anything that would possible demean me in a way where I felt the person talking didn’t view me as a woman would likely really upset me. Humiliation and calling me a slut, fine~ just not that.

Soft limits:
Needles - just because I don’t like them much.
Tickling - because being tickled sucks, and I’m not giving people ideas for punishment here :P

If I feel comfortable with someone, which is generally fairly easy since I’m somewhat naïve in ways then I am usually very open to playing or trying out a scene. I am definitely very experimental and am probably a bit of a whore for trying new things. If there is something I’ve never tried I will typically be up for it, again as long as I feel safe and comfortable with the person offering. I would like to point out though, that even if I feel comfortable with you, I might not always be in the mood to play. I am kind of bad at speaking up and saying no but when I do please, please, don’t take offense to this. I’ve had people try to guilt trip me into playing with them who I was comfortable with and was no longer after that.

Again in play, trust and experience are key for me. If you have both and I’m in the mood to try out whatever you’re offering (probably 90% of the time) I’ll be up for it, regardless of your age or gender or looks. A whip from an experienced hand feels the same~

If a more sexual and person to person approach is taken, I guess any physical contact more than just a hug (love hugs btw) or a spanking (because honestly this could be like a handshake for some people lol), I would need some kind of physical attraction or chemistry. And honestly, a lot of stuff randomly attracts me, sooo most people are probably good on this, but if there is nothing really there, and I just like you as a friend, that doesn’t mean we can’t play~ just nothing all to sexual involved please. I guess a good way to figure this out is to just ask! I’m terribly shy in this regard, soo I’ll be depending on you! If anyone is interested at least.

If play ever did become more and a relation blossomed forth, I would like to point out that sex is definitely important to me and if for some reason you’re not so into topping, in that regard, I'm probably not the right person for you~ Speaking of sex: start slow,
finish rough and fast please :) If I’m all sweaty and sore all over afterwards, with a sore throat (from screaming :P ) then that’s probably a good sign. Of course I am disease free and would expect them to be as well.

To an extent I think I am a bit slutty as well, probably leading back to the whole I want to try everything thing. In person, especially upon first meeting someone I'm generally shy/reserved/polite. As I get to know someone more I try to I guess adapt to them. I’m still me in all cases but I might be a lot more reserved and/or polite to some people than others as a form of respect. For an example, I’m probably a huge brat to one of my best friends, and will annoy her to no end, but she plays back and annoys me to no end as well, so it works out. While I’ll poke, prod and hit her back I don’t think that really makes me a switch, as I’m still definitely the more submissive of the two. I guess my point is that with a lot of people I know I don’t act like this at all, mostly because I enjoy acting like that with her because she enjoys me acting like that and unless someone expresses that they’d want me to act in a different way, for a scene perhaps, I likely won’t unless I’m certain it would be fine with them.

So far in experiencing this lifestyle everything I've tried so far I've loved~ Again I’m a new experience whore and a little naïve lol, but this will eventually probably get me into trouble because I'll usually go into things without setting limits since I think oh hay that would be really fun to try~ Not to say I don't have limits, I'm just bad about voicing them sometimes :) I’m also exceptionally terrible at not wanting to safe word, and sometimes think I might have to break something before I actually do. In this regard I especially depend on an experienced dom who realizes when things are going to far, because I often don’t - even if they are happening to me.
I've also been told that I do actually get off on some humiliation - which I never really thought of before but I guess it's true ;x

I do still want to experience the whole dom/sub relationship, and will hopefully do so in the near future.
Things I'm looking for in a dom:

Someone who will actually care about me and love me.

Someone who will push my limits farther than I ever thought they would go but still not rush things (unless they know/feel that I can handle it) and keep me safe.

Someone I can actually have a meaningful and interesting conversation with outside of play.

Someone who showcases an intelligence and state of mind that I can look up to.

Currently someone with a lot of experience. Until I build my own experience I don’t want to play or be with a dom who doesn’t know what he or she is doing. When I have more experience, provided I’m still single, playing with a slightly inexperienced dom would be fine because I could help teach them I am not at that point yet.

I'm unfortunately also not at a point in my life where I can relocate (meaning if you're not in my area I'd love to talk to you but don't expect me to drop everything and move to you or something), I am prioritizing my education~ but if you are nearby or just think you're perfect for me please still try to talk to me~ Who knows where things could eventually lead or when I might have the time and money to visit :)
Anyways that's all I'll write for now, this profile is a little more up to date now but still basically the same.

<3 Sarah

Just took this quiz (seems fairly accurate):
http://quizfarm.com/quizzes/Sex/poeticthi…

You Scored as Submissive
(((Note: This quiz is not totally comprehensive because of the length such a quiz would be. I kept it sex-based because I felt that psychological profiles and motivations were too complicated and vary too greatly among people that practice BDSM.))) It feels good to serve. A lack of control in the bedroom can be fun and relaxing. Being with a dominant person wouldn't be a bad idea.

Submissive 89%

Experimental 86%

Masochist 71%

Bondage 64%

Exhibitionist / Voyeur 64%

Degradation Lover 43%

Sadist 36%

Switch 29%

Dominant 21%