I'm new to CollarMe and relatively new to the Bay Area. My primary goal right now is to find a partner for a long term, committed loving, relationship. That search can take a long time, so if I find some fun and exciting play partners along the way, then all the better.
I am very passionate about my mission in life, and the new year has brought me a renewed focus on my goals and desires. I think in terms of big ideas and I have big ambitions in life. I am seeking someone to share my journey with.
I'd like to meet for coffee or drink first, then after that date we can decide next steps.
Some of the things I love to do:
1) Hiking
2) Watching cool and edgy movies
3) Discussing said movies while I hike with a cool person
4) Working out
5) Entrepreneurship/Business
6) Reading non-fiction, especially health, psychology, economics, and politics
7) Figuring out a way to live forever (non-metaphorically, I'm serious about this)
Some potential date ideas include:
1) Comedy shows
2) Hiking (of course)
3) Horseback riding
4) Napa Wine Tour
I have a hard time taking myself or other people seriously. The world is more comedy than tragedy. I'm a recovering pseudo-intellectual. I used to live more in books and on the Internet rather in my body in the here and now. The last few years I've changed that. I think it's a healthy change. I much prefer learning from experience now instead of learning from books.
I'm originally from the East Coast. Moving across country is like entering a time machine and moving to the future, things are so much more progressive here, which is one of the reasons I moved.
I've read a lot about BDSM and have always had a dominant streak in the bedroom, but I'm not into it hardcore, I'm more interested in playing out more unconventional and creative scenes that may have nothing to do with traditional BDSM.
I'm endlessly fascinated by curious kinks and odd desires.
I'm looking to meet endlessly curious people who are smart and can engage in conversation. I'm very respectful of boundaries.
One important thing to know about me is that I'm a pretty low pressure guy (except in scene obviously), so I'm not going to be one of these guys who is constantly hounding you for sex and I'm totally cool with just platonic relationships with women.
