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?? ? I am an easy going down to earth 36 y/o, Hawaiian American one woman man. ?Physically, I am 5'10" (1.78m), 165 lb. (74.8kg) ?dark brown hair/eyes, medium athletic build, olive or tanned skin tone, nice smile and all around easy on the eyes, so I've been told. ?I have one tattoo with plans of more, all of Hawaiian cultural or family roots in discreet locations (no face,neck or hands).?
?? ? Professionally, I have been a Martial Arts instructor, a Chef at an exclusive upscale restaurant, caterer and an Airborne soldier in the U.S. Army. ?I have traveled to many countries around the world, am fluent in English, Portuguese; proficient in Italian and Spanish. I was okay in Tagalog, ?but have lost most of it and completely forgotten Arabic and Farhsi.?
Currently I am back in school for environmental engineering.?
?? ? I am hoping to find that special one who is looking for: a strong alpha male type in the vanilla world, (in front of friends, family, co-workers "the perfect gentleman"), but for her I want to be so much more! ?I want to be her best friend, lover, submissive/ slave/ pet, whatever it is she wants me to be. ?It is a real thrill to do everything I can for her and our happiness. ?If that means cooking (I'm a chef and love cooking), cleaning (I'm an organized clean freak thanks to the military), giving her massages every night, until she falls asleep, waking her with breakfast in bed kissing her feet, or whatever, I do those kinds of things anyways when I love and care for a woman. ?I am very affectionate. ?I listen to her needs and wants (good listener, everyone talks to me), we can be hanging out just the two of us, home, my place, yours, our home, out on the town, on the beach even doing something silly and or fun with friends and family and I will still find a way to ensure of my affection and devotion. ?
?? ? With my caring or love and devotion though comes, I believe some simple and basic limits and they are:?I will have nothing to do with minors (under 21), animals, blood, or another man (I am not a cuck). ?I am not gay, bi, or curious whatsoever. ?I don't share, nor do I cheat, ever. ?It's against my morals. ?If you cheat on the one you "love", what's that mean for those whom you are just friends with? ?How can you look yourself in the mirror? ?Cheat on me, you lose the pedestal that I adored you on and in my eyes, (metaphorically) your dead to me, meaning little or less to ?me?in passing than a street walker. ?Aswell I am not looking for financial domination (LOL, I have been married before. J/k) ?I am not tight with my money or possessions. ?If we are together what's mine is yours. ?I am not so insecure as to give money to a woman based only on physical attraction just for some meaningless attention. ?I am sorry but to me that is not a far cry from prostitution (in terms of the man's side). I am not saying that financial dommes are prostitutes, just that, that is not what I am looking for. ?I would really like to meet a smart, funny, classy and down to earth woman and if we click looking for LTR- TPE (long term goal) marriage and the rest of our lives pleasuring her. ? I am now on this site hoping to find that special someone whom I can Love and who loves me even though and especially as her sub/ slave and on a flip of a switch can be her strong handsome knight in shinning armour for her to show the world, explore it with her as we grow together and protect her from that same world if need be. ?I know that love comes from within so age (21+), race, color, creed, religion (for me, you don't have to be Christian but can't be into Satan). ?I really don't have a type per say because there is beauty in all cultures and of women of all shapes and sizes.
?? ? I used to be a hopeless romantic, but 3 failed relationships, each progressively more stressful than the previous has made me reconsider things and I hope to brake the cycle here, by starting off with a like minded woman. ?I am very serious in my search and devotion so much that I have not felt a woman's touch since '08.?
?? ? I am hoping to find 24/7/365 D/s LTR TPE If you think that this is too different or whatever I ask you look up or google "Wrapped around her finger". (No, I'm not being paid by them) ?It explains to both partners what the other is looking for in his or her significant other, for female lead relationship. ?Interesting read at the very least, basically saying that ?wife or female lead relationship doesn't have to be fetishistic with leather, whips and chains (fun maybe, but not necessarily the norm).
?? ? I will not top from bottom unless told or asked to do so. ?I say that only because I was submissive to my ex wife and once in a while she liked me to change roles in the bedroom. ?We never argued because she was the boss, but she did ask and value my opinion on the important things, even still she had final say. ?She had never been with a man as secure as me in terms of letting her live out her darker (as she called) side. ?I won't go into details out of respect.. ?Everything was perfect until Iraq 03 where she could not handle the stress of the deployment and left me while I was in combat. ?That was devastating! ?I finally got myself back together and that's when I met my last ex some time after who stayed with me through a deployment to Afghanistan. ?We moved back to her country, had my son, separated and is now keeping my son away from me in Brasil. ?There in Brasil she has ?home field advantage and it's far too dangerous for me to go back and fight her legally or otherwise. ?If you have read through this so far and not turned away, thank you!
?? ? If you read this and still want to know more just let me know. ?Any questions or concerns ?write me. ?My laptop is down and cannot upload pics from my iphone/ iPod for whatever reason on this site, so if you want to see me you only need to message me here on CM or email me at escravodela@ymail.com or escravodela@gmail.com and I will reply to all serious inquiries as soon as possible. ?Thank you and hope that even If I am not right for you I hope you find all your searching for.
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