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"A Master can tell you what he expects of you, but a teacher will awaken your own expectations" - Patricia Neal Well, here I am, after a bunch of years in what I thought was a stable D/s relationship, surprised to find myself looking for an honestly submissive woman. Whether she has the heart of a sub, or a slave, what matters is that she has HEART and passion. Let's create what I feel is the ultimate relationship between a man and a woman: that unequalled connection that can only be forged in the furnace of dominance and submission as much between man and woman as it is between teacher and student. And, any good relationship is made up of trust, honesty and an ability to be genuine.A woman is blessed with powerful feelings and emotions that are amplified when she is submissive. Males are seldom able, or willing, to understand this. Also, I do understand that you are very strong or you would not have chosen to be submissive. And, to submit, you need somebody who is stronger! I don't seek a fantasy pen-pal, skype or online play. My preference is skewed towards more than a quick, casual hookup. At the same time, I am accepting and appreciative of what life can offer. While it would be nice, I wouldn't jump into anything that is 24+7. I have no complications and could do this but, for all I know, you can not. It might be that I am meant to simply be your secret "escape clause' . If you are submissive, but can only offer friendship, whether it is mixed with occasional play or not, I would still like to hear from you. And, please don't write just to tell me that I didn't finish my profile! The survey questions aren't going to tell you much about me. I do have limits and would honor yours. And know that I can both discipline and comfort, punish and reward. There is much I will want to know about you. Especially since, even before you are submissiive, you are a person. What motivates you? The need to find a safe place to be yourself? Pleasure? To be controlled in a positive manner? Do you feel the need to be guided and trained? Do you have darker wishes? Are you surprised by how erotic and sexual your needs are? Do you hope for some level of control in your everyday life, even when in the midst of your own life? Do you always strive to be obedient, or can you also be a bit of a brat? Why? For the extra measure of attention or to be disciplined? Are you curious about erotic pain or your tolerances? While I will find out, isn't it better to let it all out, now? I am going to push, test and challenge you but I don't ever want you to have regrets. I'm a very good listener and an even better teacher. I am outstanding when it comes to showing you new things and even better at comforting you. I've tried to make it clear that I am very open to all possibilities. My interest isn't directed towards any one age group (I am no hypocrite and well aware of my own age!), or any certain kind of body shape (again, not a hypocrite, but working on those extra pounds, myself!) or appearance. I have earned my gray hairs , been a single Dad and find myself approaching those "golden years". I am a MA native, but find the combination of both mountains and sea shore tough to resist, so I can easily see myself a few miles north, in the near future. And, since some people need to have it stated, flat out: I am single, not involved with anybody. I am employed, discrete, comfortable in most social situations, healthy and have a good outlook on life. You should be ready to voice verify sooner, not later.
9/24/2015 7:12:50 PM
AVOID object625, she has a great many issues, among them , being honest
8/23/2015 10:02:43 AM
If you misuse the word, describe me as a "dominate", then I am going to ignore you. 
Some people are just so superficial when it comes to their role, or lack of one!, in this lifestyle. 
8/15/2015 7:23:16 AM
OK, instead of endlessly adding to my profile, I will use this journal.

Picture might be from 18/24 months ago.  Hair is same length, pretty much gray.  Still wear glasses, different frames, though.  On and off, have a moustache. 
silentpainseeker
 
 Age: 35
 Roberts, Wisconsin