My main kink is that I love to be controlled, used, and to be forced to serve. 

I love servitude in the form of work, without excluding any other form of servitude (e.g., sexual). I am definitely a submissive, who finds comfort in someone's firm hand. 

The truth is that I am far more attracted to female authority, but I can submit to a man as well, if the chemistry is correct. 

I do seek discipline, and I wish to trade off servitude and submission for firm guidance and control. 

I love role-playing, especially if it takes the form of a lifestyle (e.g., to be someone's pet), but I have a strong objection against public humiliation or exhibition. 

The perfect deal would be for me to keep my public life, on the frontend (e.g., work and social connections), but to be completely controlled in the background, down to my every move or thought. 

It would work much easier for us if I have some type of servitude to offer, for example in the form of work as it will keep me useful and connected. Saying that, I am competent with computers and I have a high academic education, so I might be useful as a type of secretary or web designer/developer (I have been used in the past as a web designer and IT support, for someone). 

I am very open to communication with everyone and I promise to respect whoever contacts me, and to behave in a submissive way. I am not opposed to the idea of a remote or online situation; on the contrary, I am very attracted to the idea.