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It's being -surprisingly- difficult for me to find a balance between arrogance and the classic under-sell. And so, I expect to do a fair amount of tweaking/adding over the next few days. But, just to get -something- out there..
At the moment, I'm finishing my undergrad in psychology, getting published, and looking towards going into grad school.
D/s has, in hindsight, been a long part of who I am for quite some time. Originally, I suppose, I thought it was just a kind of sex I enjoyed or a kind of porn I sought. Over the past few years, however, I'm starting to see it creep more and more into how I see my life, experience that life, and want that life to be.
I suppose I could be entirely satisfied with a play partner or sub. Only with a small number of my partners has anything beyond hair-pulling and slapping developed, and while I'm rather confident and competent, I could always use more practice with the more practical skills. So someone to learn with and on would not be a terrible thing, especially as my toy chest grows.
Ideally-slash-eventually, looking for a D/s relationship that extends beyond the bedroom, and into a more 24/7 Master/slave dynamic, with safety and sanity in mind (emphasis on the latter).
Looking for someone supportive, intuitive, perceptive. With a healthy masochistic streak. Someone at least somewhat height/weight proportionate, and while I have no qualms at all about taller women, you would do well to keep in mind I'm not very tall myself. Should have a well-rounded life, as while I enjoy the nurturing aspect very much, it would be nice if you had your own outside interests and activities, and aren't hoping your Dom or Master will supply your life with all of its stimulation and meaning. I believe a D/s relationship can be intense physically and psychologically, but also passionate, romantic, and, yes, loving.
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Well. It's been interesting so far.
There's been the expected Gor. While I enjoy the occasional quote.. The whole thing comes across as childish. It's all very... Star Trek convention.
For starters, most of the prose in a Gor book is horrid. And what isn't, becomes stale and repetitive. For the most part it's pretty benign. The third person talk gets a bit tiresome, mostly because it comes across as forced and acting. But I suppose I respect the psychology behind it.
I just don't see much difference between greeting with "Tal" and studying a Klingon dictionary.
And I guess all the serving ritualism serves a purpose as well. It's a decent standard to judge by, I guess. So perhaps the codified rules and dogma serves well like a sport, or game, as competition, but.. I think I just have more respect for those who can come up with their own rituals, rather than falling in line with Norman's.. modality of the she-quadruped.
Also, I have a fairly decent rant about Ethical Slut that I was working on in the shower, but. I've lost interest for the moment.
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| Age: 26 |
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Florida |
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