Collarspace.com

ok, i guess first things first, i am a "male" seeking a "female" or "couple" (female and male, or two females.) for some odd reason, it seems my profile is attracting men to it. you would think with a handle like "emptymedry" that would mean i am male, seeking my thing between my legs to have all of it juices to be extracted from it....by a Mistress. since this IS a BDSM site. sorry, if there was confusion there that i was looking for a male only. i am NOT!!!! now onto the juicy stuff. willing to submit and serve Your needs and wants. i will be totally honest and upfront with You and ask for honesty and safety in return. i am a newbie, but have had this long hidden secret of being in a BDSM relationship as a sub for many years. one where my dominate female partner, or would consider a couple (male and female or two females,) take me in and allow me to serve Their needs or experiment Their BDSM fantasies or desires on me. my mind runs wild with ideas, and i would be willing to allow You to experiment Your wildest desires and ideas on me as well. i would be willing to discuss these ideas openly and freely with You. my only request is, if i say, NO!, i want my no's on those ideas or desires and hard limits to be respected and NOT done. i believe in complete honesty and respect in my wishes, as in turn i will grant You full honesty and respect in return for Your wishes. i do have hard limits as in NO severe punishment or lasting marks, blood, scat, children or animals. i know these may NOT include them all, but all i ask is that You ask me first. i would like patience in gaining my acceptance to meet with you and prefer we communicate first to see if there is any compatibility and a safe comfort level felt between us first before we meet. though if we feel there is a mutual interest to explore our BDSM side together, i would be open to a possible 24/7 full time live in nude sub for you (or a couple, if You are a couple interested in a male sub.) or if You prefer just using me part time, i am willing to do that too. You are in charge of controlling me, You decide. :)