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| I have never been officially involved in this community. I figure a few bits from my past relationships can give you a clear picture and cut down on a lot of the BS.
I have used all types of toys and love bondage (not with the fancy ropes but I do enjoy getting very creative).
Causing someone pain without purpose or pleasure does nothing for me. Noting that, I have pulled girlfriends over my lap and spanked them before (generally hard or the message won't get across). They were shocked, scared, humiliated, and wetter than ever that night. Most importantly, they learned their lesson.
I have only dated women that would classify themselves as "vanilla" but over the years I have gotten much more efficient in turning a woman into a true "sub" as the community would say. Still, they never have been satisfactory and eventually they must be let go. :(
I am naturally a dom (I do not like labels that define attempt to define one's personality). A few past relationships have said that they felt me as too domineering. To clarify this applies to the fact that their happiness, life, and emotional stability became too dependent on my words or actions. Any man can be a physical and sexual dom. This applies much more than the physical and sexual. Mental and emotional are just as essential, if not moreso. The mind controls the body.
Every woman is submissive. As sexuality operates on a spectrum, so does the level of a woman's submissiveness. If they cannot keep up or satisfy me properly, then it is only a matter of time before I lose interest and cut off all emotional/intellectual love from them (replete with all the emotional scaring that leads to).
I am very empathetic and if you would like to know in what context I will gladly answer this.
When a woman is a soaking, cumming, incoherent mess by my hand. I am very pleased.
Depending on who I am with, slow or fast, I will push you to the brink of what you thought your boundaries were. Often past. And you will love me for it.
I am looking for a very open female sub or slave (If slave, then there are a few other things you should know). Don't worry, I do know the difference and will act as such.
Additionally do not expect me to share my day or intimate life details with you, if I want you to know, I will tell you. I find it boring and overly expressive, I will gladly listen to yours though.
In public I am a very traditional gentleman who wears suits for work 6 days a week. I am also a ton of fun to be around. In the bedroom is where you release it.
This was a stream of conscious typeup and will edit/improve/clarify more later. If you have any questions, feel free to ask. There are such things as stupid questions.
Pictures up later. Also if I like you and you ask politely I may expound on some sexual experiences. If I feel like it.
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