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This site is certainly for the unusual.
And my search is for just that - so we are well suited!!!!!
However, my unusual may, on the surface, seem far less perverse and extreme as many; it is more about the nature of the relationship that i seek here.
Of course i seek the perverse and extreme, but firstly i seek to establish my place as a submissive to Another.
For me this means time and effort on both parts, and of course by communication.
In this communication (email, chat, text, calls) i am seeking to build and demonstrate my position as submissive - to make it real, if only in the abstract at first. As that develops i would of course want to bring that into the real.
Some may be wondering how communication establishes me as a submissive: well for me the manner of writing and addressing a Dom/me, the content and personal information i am expected to share, the frequency i must write or call, tasks i must complete and demonstrate, and so forth all build that sense of submission. It is also dependent on the sense i gain from the Dom/me as part of those communications - their manner, treatment of me, expectations, demands, rules, and so forth.
Hopefully, people will see i am not looking for one liners or fast meets. Rather i seek exchanges that allow my role and place to emerge and be cemented.
If that isn't for You, i understand entirely. It wont be for many. It will appeal to, i hope, those who like me are deeply interested in and attracted to the powerful psychological dimensions of D/s. This doesn't mean i am not interested in the physical - far from it. But it is what happens in my mind that arouses, drives and opens up the physical and the sensual dimensions.
If it is something that resonates with You or might be an approach You would consider then perhaps W/we can chat and explore.
i naturally have a list of things that excite me or i see as defining the nature of my submission at present (which i will update here shortly). However, i feel that these are just indicative and tentative, as the nature of the play W/we might engage will become clear as the dynamic between Dom/me and sub develops. So nothing is in or out per se and much is possible.
Put simply (as i saw on another profile) my starting points are:
i am submissive and You will be Dominant.
i am masochistic and You will Sadistic (and here i use these terms in their broadest sense)

To answer some of the usual questions: yes, i have some experience so this is not my first time or just an idea i have. And, while i would love to have my wife assume this role for me, it is not something that she comprehends in any way, so i expect and will return absolute discretion.

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RainFitzpatrick
 
 Age: 31
  Minnesota