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Why am I here..? Two reasons: Would love to get to know others, to make some online, maybe even some real world friends. Friends who don’t think you are completely bonkers because of your interests; friends who can accept you for who are, even if their own taste may not be yours and vice versa. Being classed as ‘mad as a box of frogs’ is completely acceptable in all other aspects of my life, the world always looks more interesting if you look beyond the obvious. Would also not be averse to finding someone with whom there was some chemistry, some fire, preferably of the dominant persuasion. Background: I am a relative newcomer, although my inclinations have been well known to myself for some considerable time. I class myself as a switch as I have experienced pleasure on both sides, although never with the same person. I can find both men and women attractive, gender does not play a part in whether I find someone desirable or not; it is the person. To be totally up front, I will state I am in a relationship and no, it is not an unhappy partnership but I have other aspects of me I wish to explore. So… am I just looking for purely online contact or the possibility of taking something into the real world…? That, I don't know, it depends on whom I find or who finds me. So what do I find attractive in others…? Intelligence – this does not necessarily mean well-educated and highly qualified… the two concepts do not always coexist :) Dark sense of humour… must have! At least a few points on the geek scale (am a geek, sorry..) Love of good food - am a passionate amateur chef always suspicious of anyone who can't do the decadent food thing on occasion. Interest or appreciation of goth/steampunk/burlesque (no, not brave enough to live the life but love the outfits). I do like to take my time to get to know someone, so my apologies to the impatient, I also think that if you are interested enough, you’ll take time to get to know me as I will you.

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toripet
 
 Age: 44
 Huntington Beach, California