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Playful Sub looking for Willing Dom (Daddy/Trainer/Rigger are all dynamics I like)
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I am seeking a local male Dom for a long term D/s relationship. I will not relocate or travel extensively for play, I have responsibilities that do not allow it. So if you live more then a 30-40 min drive, I am sorry I can't accommodate that. I am looking for a Dom that understands while I want to please him and tend to his needs, I won't always be able to just drop everything on a moments notice, nor do I expect him to always be able to do so for me.
I am only looking for one Dom, not a casual hook up or one night stand, to build an open, honest relationship based on trust with. I want to grow in my submissiveness and training with a Dom that cherishes and adores me while disciplining and using me. I have to have that special bond of a Dom/sub to be able to let myself go all the way. I need a firm Dom that is also patient and understanding of the journey.
Some of my favorite things are:
***Rope bondage - I am a rope slut. Just dragging a length of rope across my body before applying any ties can get me dripping.***
*flogging
*Collars, restraints and gags
*Posturing
*Being told to hold positions while you try to get me to move
*Being required to wear a plug or breast bondage under clothing while going out to dinner or errands
*Being required to remain on hands and knees for an evening
*Eye contact restriction
*Being given permission to talk
*Forced or denied orgasms
*Caging
*kittyplay
....just to name a few as there are too many to list.
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While these are all fun pass times in the realm of an evening together, what I really crave is control. I don't mean grab me by the hair and force me to my knees, though that does have its time and place in all things, but I want a man to be able to make me want to get on my knees for him. Someone who I desire to make happy and in turn makes me feel safe to explore all those inner feelings and desires I have. A man that understands submission can bring out raw emotions and put his sub off balance as she learns and knows it is his job guide her and be patient with her.
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I am a very playful person, that would be the kitty side of me. A lot of people are not sure on the what to expect with that, but I am not a fur wearing role player. It is more subtle, sensual and passionate than anything else. It is the way I kiss you, crawl across the floor to you, or kneel on all fours and put my head in your lap to be pet that is my kitty side. It fits well into any aspect of D/s.
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I am also a curvy woman and I am ok with that, so you should be too. I have very ample breasts and grab able hips. I am a mom of two large monster boys (you will most likely never meet them but they are a part of me), so I wear my scars proudly, but I am also active these days in gym, hiking in the redwoods and enjoying finding places to ride my bike. So, like anyone else I am work in progress worth getting to know.
If you understand that discipline is love and are seriously interested in a mature growth relationship then send me a message, if you just want easy random kinky sex or don't believe this is a two way street then don't bother.
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While I don't expect everyone to fall into a preset mold, there are a few things I am looking for. I like a Dom who is secure and put together with no need for drama and the only 'head games' he plays are to enhance play. Someone who is intelligent and can perk my interest with wit and charm as opposed to graphic pictures of his endowment. (Don't get me wrong I like cock, but have a regular picture and something to say as well.) Also, someone who doesn't give up on me easily. The feelings associate with giving control to someone else can sometimes take time to sort through and understand.
I am not hung up on age, looks, money, social status or any of the other usual things. They all play into a total package mixed more importantly with humor, intelligence, skill and chemistry. However, if there isn't chemistry, then there really isn't anything you can do about it. That being said, it would be nice if your profile doesn't have a picture, if you would attach one so I know who I am talking to.
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Yes, I am a Dodgers fan. No, I won't hold the Giants against you ;) No, I won't submit to wearing Giants gear, you will just have to beat me. Yes, we can have a lot of fun playing games around the rivalry. |
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I have been accused of peeking at profiles and not saying "Hi." This is true, I am a shy sub until I get to know someone, and tend to look and let others contact me if they like what they see in my profile. I will call it being demure :) |
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