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| *UPDATE ON MY PAGE* Guess I need to speak on what bought me here. I was in a 3 year regular relationship, but the person was able to see in me the curiosity for being submissive. Unfortunately, before it could become a lifestyle for us, the relationship ended. I am semi new to this, I wont lie, but I would like to make it a lifestyle. It isn't just a fetish for me as I had a lot of tendencies before that relationship, I was just never paired with the right person. Go figure. Kind of been chasing that dragon ever since... I have a few tattoos, no piercings (wont say that will be forever), I do drink occasionally, I do not smoke, no criminal record etc. Just lil ole me :)
*PLEASE READ* I have been overwhelmed by the support I have gotten since last night, but I wanted to clear some things up. While I don't have to explain myself to anyone at this point, it is also not my intention to disrespect anyone. I have a FULL TIME career that is dense with responsibility. This means that on a short coffee break, I may be able to read through a lot of my message, but I am not able to respond to them. I have already had pushy insensitive messages from Doms because I opened the message but had not responded. I do not belong to anyone at this time and as such, I have no obligation to respond immediately. That right will be for the right Dom. Again, I am not at all being rude, but dont be rude or abrasive. This one is not yours.
What Im looking for:
Someone who is caring and provides me with a safe haven and space, makes me comfortable and understands what it means to be a good Dom.
A Dom who sincerely wants to see my grow in every aspect of life, not just as a sub.
Someone who can teach (I am willing). Im not a Brat, but I have an inherent stubborn streak sometimes. My ex Dom partner had fun with this and I learned about pain/pleasure and punishment.
Someone who enjoys giving heavy mental stimuli, spankings, light restraints etc
Power play is also something Im interested in learning
Im a pretty educated well- rounded woman, so that would be a plus.We can chat about different things!
I dont just want this to be a sex thing, I would like for me and the right Dom to grow together and be exclusive.
Im interested and have a desire to learn and make this a lifestyle.
Really nervous actually so anyone just looking to be friends and chat would be so greatly appreciated. I come from a very traditional family and some members of my family are well known in my hometown, current town etc, so my...sexual preferences...are something I have had to keep to myself. So males and females as new friends would be so awesome!!!
I dont know about pictures of myself yet, as again, because of my family, I want to be discreet. This definitely doesn't mean the right Dom or friends wouldn't ever see me though, so I do not mind sending pictures to the right person and people I build friendships with!
I would want to give the right Dom as much attention as he deserves, but I have to disclose I work and go to school. Most of my evenings and wknds are my own though.
I would want some form of mental connection with the right Dom, initially, and not just sex. I actually dont know if that is an unrealistic request since I only have one semi-experience and my reading to go on. Sorry!
If anyone wants to ask me anything or chat, Id be so happy to hear from you. I like to travel so I wouldn't mind meeting new people that are currently located elsewhere as well!!
I am a pretty peaceful and fun person and my ex Dom always described me as playful flirtatious and sensual (with him only of course). I'll let you be the judge of that. I just want to find the right Dom to give him the peace and tranquility that I have in my life!
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