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UPDATE: I have found the Dom of my dreams! Yes, he is white, older and sexy as hell. He gives me everything I ever desired and then some. He takes me places I have never been. We are very happy! He respects me, yet pushes me to try new things and I have because we have trust! Damn, I am one lucky slut! Some people may not understand but I can't worry about that, we hare happy and that is all that matters! My Dom loves me and I love him too! I am no longer seeking a Dom, just friends.     Hello, I am new to the lifestyle, I have always known that I was submissive but never really acted on it. During the day I am a strong, independent, professional Black woman that has to always be in charge. I am used to taking care of myself. No one would ever know that I have this "other" side.  It is not easy being a professional Black woman, many people assume that we are angry and have attitudes. That is not always the case, sometimes we just have to be very guarded and it is taken the wrong way.   I do work a lot and I am very dedicated to my career and have other obligations but in my limited free time, I want to explore this "other" side of "me." I am very discreet and respectful of boundaries. What is done in private should stay private. My personal life needs to remain private, I will always respect your professional and private life as well.   I love strong dominant men that like to take charge but I also love the gentle touch of a woman. I guess I love the best of both worlds!     I am a big girl, and I am very comfortable in the skin I am in. You can't love or be loved or be happy in any type of relationship with someone else until you love yourself first!   I was in a long-term relationship for over ten years and it has ended, now it is time for me to do me! I am looking to meet new people in my area that are into the lifestyle and see what happens. I may be new but I have common sense. In other words,  I may have been born the other day but it was not yesterday. I don't have time for games or drama. I am not going to rush into any relationship, I want to take my time and safely explore the lifestyle.   Life is too short not to be happy.
REKA
 
 Age: 32
 OLD BRIGDE, New Jersey