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I have recently decided to embrace the submissive feelings that I have always had and search for the Domme that will allow me to be who i am. I came across the page of mystress world and some of her writings really spoke to me. I've attached a journal entry of hers and i think this is the type of situation i need. I certainly hope to hear from you soon.
5/28/2011 3:31:28 PM

Sisters .. 
  
Let me reinforce a basic.  No, let me recommend 
a strengthened basic. 
  
Whip your boy regularly.   
  
Whip a live-in boy to tears at least once a week. 
  
It sets up everything and chases off the errant 
pigmale who lied his way into your presence. 
  
Whip an occasional IP boy everytime. 
  
Whip a first time IP boy, for sure. 
  
Doesn't matter if he has styled himself as a 
sissy boy, cuckold sex slave, or bad boy .. 
whip him anyway.  
  
Make them hold out extended wrists to be 
cuffed .., snap the cuffs to a light rope that 
is run thru your sturdy hanging basket hook 
and tie the other end off to a yonder door 
or bedstead.   Or over the bathroom door in 
a motel with the tag end back under and out 
(and tied to the door knob)  Or cuff him to 
the clothes rod. 
  
But cuff him and whip him. 
  
Whip him with what? 
  
Your own belt or his belt. 
  
The telephone cord. 
  
The flog that he brought with him as a gift 
offering.   
  
Or make the mommie's boy bring several 
carefully selected switches from various trees. 
  
Whatever .. the best whip is one that you can 
swing with authority, marks him well, and he can 
barely stand the pain, and cannot hold back the 
tears indefinitely. 
  
Tears, yes,of course.    
  
So bonding and they wash away any vestiges of 
pigmale.  It is just so hard for a cuffed, sobbing  
male to feel or act very macho .. tied up, being 
whipped, and crying. 
  
If a sissyboy, have him in panties and then while 
strung up, strip the panties down to bare his sissy 
little ass.  Won't take much to bring a siisy boy to 
sobbing, begging tears. 
  
The sex slave, whip his cock and balls too for good 
measure.   For the sex slave we want to first whip 
him until he is hard.  The sex slave should always 
associate whippings with sex slave usage.  
  
The bad boy .. well, he will need lots of whipping.. 
Take your time, mark him well .. talk to him as you 
whip him .. remind him that you are going to whip 
him until he cries.  And that you are going to make 
note of how long you have to whip him to produce 
the tears.   Make note also of how long he has to 
be whipped to reach whatever is full hard for him. 
  
Ditto for a bitch dog boy, and a mommie's boy is 
akin to a sissyboy. 
  
Make a habit of measuring your boy.. 
  
A caliper device of this length is ideal for the 
purpose: 
http://www.harborfr eight.com/ cpi/ctaf/ displayitem. taf?Itemnumber= 96509 
  
About $10.00    
  
So 'just how' is a cock measured? 
  
Good question. 
  
Circumfurence is easy enough, it is measured at the 
widest point on the upper half of his cock. 
  
But how is 'how long' measured?   This is where 
boys frquently lie when they report their 'bulk 
size' (length + circumference) .  From the tip end 
of head back to .. to, to where?   
  
That is the question.  
  
Here is the Mystress way:   Buy that caliper in 
the link .. it is a 24' caliper with about a 4' deep 
standard at the end.   Sliding other standard 
(projection) for precise measuring of cock width. 
  
Length?  Well here is the tricky, but highly 
effective, way to do it.    Stick the fixed standard 
up his backdoor, lube if you have to.  Then with 
the measuring stick part of it to the front, lay 
his cock (however hard or soft) forward until 
the angle of his dangle matches the inclined plane 
which is anchored in his ass.   Bingo, there is your 
measurement.   This caliper measures in metric. 
So record his size, that way.   Keep records and 
see how much bigger he will get as measured in 
future whippings.   Trust me, he will. 
  
Being measured in such a cold manner, also helps 
to further emasculate him mentally and emotionally, 
while ironicly his cock gets even bigger! 
  
Anything more you want from a sissy boy, you will 
get when discussing it as he is being prepared for 
the whipping and of course whilst he is being whipped. 
  
The sex slave will soon be like Pavlov's Dogs as the 
whipping becomes his trigger for sexual usage desire, 
OSODD, mounting, clean-up, etc, etc.   Yes, before 
long he will answer YES when asked if he is willing to 
take a whipping to earn sexual usage.  Perverse as  
that sounds, it works and he will ! 
  
And yes, sometimes it is a close call between his being 
a 13 versus a 31.   Maybe a toss up between being 
basically a sex slave and bad boy. 
  
Since whipping the sex slave makes him perform 
bigger and better, and since whipping the bad boy 
will make YOU hotter and wetter the longer you 
whip him .. it just behooves us to extend his tolerance 
for taking the whipping. 
  
It is done this way. 
  
You have made note of how long it took to get 
tears the first time (and last time) and you know 
how big he eventually got. 
  
You tell him that you expect him to last longer 
'this time' than he did last time before crying, 
and that you will help him to do that. 
  
But how?   Maybe dismiss him should he begin 
crying prematurely, otherwise a sissy boy would 
start crying as soon as you cuffed him.  But 
that might be too harsh to threaten and 
carry out dismissal. 
  
So do it this way, talk to him in that modulated 
voice as you whip him in a steady, 'modulated' 
manner of whipping.  Tell him to hold out as long 
as he can .. and to help him do so, because when 
the tears turn into sobs, the real whipping will 
begin.  Yes a brief interlude where you wear out 
the switch or belt on him.   Turn the music up 
to muffle his screams.   
  
Trust me, human nature will cause him to hold out 
each time as long as he possibly can to stave off 
that harsh rapid-fire grand ending. 
  
A whipped boy is a better boy, regardless of what 
you use him for. 
  
Oh, he is a married boy ?   
  
Well,  let us just say that he will just have to be 
careful where he undresses for a few days.  But 
know that he will carefully look in the mirror 
each morning and evening, and will become excited 
all over again when he sees the slightest vestige of 
mark remaining.  He will wear it like a badge on his 
uniform.  
  
You just can't beat a good whipping (pun intended), 
a regular whipping, to send the pigmales packing 
and render a good boy a better boy and bonded 
more closely to you than ever before. 
  
Whip that boy. 
  
Half of the boys reading this will admit to being 
hard as they read this .. and most of the other half 
who deny it are probably lying .. in denial. 
  
And this may run-off a pigmale or two, disguised 
until now, amongst our boys.  And fine, if so. 
  
No pain, no gain.   
  
You have not had really good OSODD until you 
have it from a boy whom you have just whipped 
to extended tears.   
  
If you are already whipping your boys like this, 
and I know that several of you do (hello MsRhiannon, 
for one, and can you say Lady Dynah for another, 
and there are several more) .. then please share with 
us your typical whipping of your boy(s).   How 
frequently, how restrained, what with, and how long 
does it typically take to produce the tears.  And what 
cock size improvements have you seen? 
  
Noit there yet?   
  
Then questions are in order, and what is taking you 
so long ?  Grab life by the balls, girl ! 
  
Our motto, 
'erotically beautiful D&s, free of yuk or maim' 
  
Whipping as described fits into that ? 
  
Absolutely, since a boy will cum and come to beg 
for it, it must be described as erotically beautiful. 
It sure is not yuk, and while painful briefly it falls 
short of maim or serious injury. 
  
A whipped boy.. is your boy, for sure.   
  
Mystress 

breakme17
 
 Age: 24
  Illinois