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Sisters .. Let me reinforce a basic. No, let me recommend a strengthened basic. Whip your boy regularly. Whip a live-in boy to tears at least once a week. It sets up everything and chases off the errant pigmale who lied his way into your presence. Whip an occasional IP boy everytime. Whip a first time IP boy, for sure. Doesn't matter if he has styled himself as a sissy boy, cuckold sex slave, or bad boy .. whip him anyway. Make them hold out extended wrists to be cuffed .., snap the cuffs to a light rope that is run thru your sturdy hanging basket hook and tie the other end off to a yonder door or bedstead. Or over the bathroom door in a motel with the tag end back under and out (and tied to the door knob) Or cuff him to the clothes rod. But cuff him and whip him. Whip him with what? Your own belt or his belt. The telephone cord. The flog that he brought with him as a gift offering. Or make the mommie's boy bring several carefully selected switches from various trees. Whatever .. the best whip is one that you can swing with authority, marks him well, and he can barely stand the pain, and cannot hold back the tears indefinitely. Tears, yes,of course. So bonding and they wash away any vestiges of pigmale. It is just so hard for a cuffed, sobbing male to feel or act very macho .. tied up, being whipped, and crying. If a sissyboy, have him in panties and then while strung up, strip the panties down to bare his sissy little ass. Won't take much to bring a siisy boy to sobbing, begging tears. The sex slave, whip his cock and balls too for good measure. For the sex slave we want to first whip him until he is hard. The sex slave should always associate whippings with sex slave usage. The bad boy .. well, he will need lots of whipping.. Take your time, mark him well .. talk to him as you whip him .. remind him that you are going to whip him until he cries. And that you are going to make note of how long you have to whip him to produce the tears. Make note also of how long he has to be whipped to reach whatever is full hard for him. Ditto for a bitch dog boy, and a mommie's boy is akin to a sissyboy. Make a habit of measuring your boy.. A caliper device of this length is ideal for the purpose: http://www.harborfr eight.com/ cpi/ctaf/ displayitem. taf?Itemnumber= 96509 About $10.00 So 'just how' is a cock measured? Good question. Circumfurence is easy enough, it is measured at the widest point on the upper half of his cock. But how is 'how long' measured? This is where boys frquently lie when they report their 'bulk size' (length + circumference) . From the tip end of head back to .. to, to where? That is the question. Here is the Mystress way: Buy that caliper in the link .. it is a 24' caliper with about a 4' deep standard at the end. Sliding other standard (projection) for precise measuring of cock width. Length? Well here is the tricky, but highly effective, way to do it. Stick the fixed standard up his backdoor, lube if you have to. Then with the measuring stick part of it to the front, lay his cock (however hard or soft) forward until the angle of his dangle matches the inclined plane which is anchored in his ass. Bingo, there is your measurement. This caliper measures in metric. So record his size, that way. Keep records and see how much bigger he will get as measured in future whippings. Trust me, he will. Being measured in such a cold manner, also helps to further emasculate him mentally and emotionally, while ironicly his cock gets even bigger! Anything more you want from a sissy boy, you will get when discussing it as he is being prepared for the whipping and of course whilst he is being whipped. The sex slave will soon be like Pavlov's Dogs as the whipping becomes his trigger for sexual usage desire, OSODD, mounting, clean-up, etc, etc. Yes, before long he will answer YES when asked if he is willing to take a whipping to earn sexual usage. Perverse as that sounds, it works and he will ! And yes, sometimes it is a close call between his being a 13 versus a 31. Maybe a toss up between being basically a sex slave and bad boy. Since whipping the sex slave makes him perform bigger and better, and since whipping the bad boy will make YOU hotter and wetter the longer you whip him .. it just behooves us to extend his tolerance for taking the whipping. It is done this way. You have made note of how long it took to get tears the first time (and last time) and you know how big he eventually got. You tell him that you expect him to last longer 'this time' than he did last time before crying, and that you will help him to do that. But how? Maybe dismiss him should he begin crying prematurely, otherwise a sissy boy would start crying as soon as you cuffed him. But that might be too harsh to threaten and carry out dismissal. So do it this way, talk to him in that modulated voice as you whip him in a steady, 'modulated' manner of whipping. Tell him to hold out as long as he can .. and to help him do so, because when the tears turn into sobs, the real whipping will begin. Yes a brief interlude where you wear out the switch or belt on him. Turn the music up to muffle his screams. Trust me, human nature will cause him to hold out each time as long as he possibly can to stave off that harsh rapid-fire grand ending. A whipped boy is a better boy, regardless of what you use him for. Oh, he is a married boy ? Well, let us just say that he will just have to be careful where he undresses for a few days. But know that he will carefully look in the mirror each morning and evening, and will become excited all over again when he sees the slightest vestige of mark remaining. He will wear it like a badge on his uniform. You just can't beat a good whipping (pun intended), a regular whipping, to send the pigmales packing and render a good boy a better boy and bonded more closely to you than ever before. Whip that boy. Half of the boys reading this will admit to being hard as they read this .. and most of the other half who deny it are probably lying .. in denial. And this may run-off a pigmale or two, disguised until now, amongst our boys. And fine, if so. No pain, no gain. You have not had really good OSODD until you have it from a boy whom you have just whipped to extended tears. If you are already whipping your boys like this, and I know that several of you do (hello MsRhiannon, for one, and can you say Lady Dynah for another, and there are several more) .. then please share with us your typical whipping of your boy(s). How frequently, how restrained, what with, and how long does it typically take to produce the tears. And what cock size improvements have you seen? Noit there yet? Then questions are in order, and what is taking you so long ? Grab life by the balls, girl ! Our motto, 'erotically beautiful D&s, free of yuk or maim' Whipping as described fits into that ? Absolutely, since a boy will cum and come to beg for it, it must be described as erotically beautiful. It sure is not yuk, and while painful briefly it falls short of maim or serious injury. A whipped boy.. is your boy, for sure. Mystress |
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