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This site has some major issues when dealing with photos while on mobile devices. |
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Out of the state for a while... |
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Dominant Female's profile starts...
"I want to destroy you financially"
Who are you, the government? |
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What I'd really like to see is a FemDomme Speed dating event. Problem is I don't think you'd be able to get enough participants to make it successful. |
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Online only = I'm a dude posing as a woman hoping to find someone stupid enough to send me money or gifts. |
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A woman posting a picture of her little pinky would get thousands of emails. Why post a provocative pic which will create a full time job for you? |
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Think I'm gonna be leaving CA in about a month and not back until the winter. Not definitive yet, but each day that passes I'm getting my head around it. This means that a LTR is unlikely. |
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Need fewer days like today. Ugh. |
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For those on FL with an interest in things like service oriented relationships and protocol I'd recommend a Los Angeles group, Club WICK. They meet once a month. |
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The following 2 videos by Dr. Gabriele closely describe my idea of a D/s relationship.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zC3Oq671Us8&feature=youtu.be
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BM5Em603Fv8&feature=youtu.be |
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Always looking to expand my knowledge, so started reading the book "At Her Feet" , which came recommended. Seems informative so far. |
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I'm a huge Simpsons fan. So to put this in Simpsons terms... If you're you're looking for a sub like Ralph Wiggum that's not me. I'd be more like Herb Simpson. (No, not Homer. Those familiar with The Simpsons will know who I'm talking about.
I just read the profile of one of the Dommes on this site. About .5% of the Dommes on here have worthwhile profiles. This Domme's profile had a lot of common sense thoughts. One of these was the idea that you can't go from living alone to living together and living the lifestyle 24/7. It's a process which starts off slowly and builds up with time until the foundation and trust are solid. Moving from one to the other in a very short time period is just too big of a change too quickly.
On another point. I like staying active and have several different activities I enjoy (non-kink, that is). I'm not really looking for someone whose activities match mine, but who likes to stay active. There are all sorts of physical activities I don't participate in, but I'm always open to trying new things (again, non-kink related).
I was debating on merging a bunch of this into my profile, but heck it's long enough already and it's probably easier to read in a journal entry than to try and search for what's been updated.
I want to put some new profile pics up, just trying to come up with something "creative". |
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Ugh, I'm really getting tired of not being able to sleep. As soon as I close my eyes my mind starts racing with things that need to get done, problems looming, fears, etc. Too much uncertainty right now. |
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Not such a healthy dinner. Rigatoni with italian sausage and a nice cab to go with it. I really needed something to unstress me, even if just temporarily. |
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New show - "Brain Games" - Love this kind of stuff. |
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I'm awful with paying attention to dates. Apparently DomCon starts tmorrow, but made no plans to go, so looks like I'll be skipping out on it. |
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So sick of seeing the cyber panhandlers (aka findomme) pages on here. They should make a site just for them. What? They do? Ok, then get the fuck off here and go hang out on there you pathetic lazy losers. |
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Best tribal council EVER!! |
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I'm traveling back east for at least 2 more weeks, hopefully no more than that. Running into problems with a company's product which has me back here longer than I'd prefer. I'm dying to get back home and get back to my normal life (at least normal to me). If I view your profile, but don't email you it's simply because I don't want to waste anyone's time until I have a definitive schedule. |
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For the Dommes in Los Angeles I would recommend 2 different groups on
1. Fem 2 Fem - A RL group of Dommes who get together for discussions and learning about different topics related to the D/s lifestyle.
2. ClubFEMLa - This is the local Los Angeles chapter of the international group
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One of the biggest turn ons for me while on CM? Reading a woman's profile and finding that I meet the requirements she has, can meet the levels she sets for her to achieve happiness and we have similar interests (not just fetish, but also vanilla) |
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I'm getting too many messages here. Come over to this other website and contact me there. Really? Does anyone fall for that?
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I've been thinking about past relationships lately. In some of those there are topics my exes brought up as either wanting to try or seeing in the future. Some of these are things you might find in a FLR. I quickly dismissed them because I thought it would harm my self-esteem, she would see me as weak or what would our friends think? What's strange is that in a relationship which is female led these things are discussed up front. By doing that self-esteem stays in tact and the guy isn't viewed as weak, but supportive and understanding. As far as friends, well it's agreed that vanilla friends don't have a need to know and non-vanilla friends understand. It's all about how everything is approached and how things start out (I think). |
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Last girlfriend calls me to tell me she's now engaged. Glad for her, but would feel better if I was at least in a relationship. |
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I'm aware that many women feel a chastity device for a guy is a necessity. I understand that giving control of one's orgasms to the woman is powerful, but couldn't it be done on a trust basis? Wearing a device makes it much harder to stay active on a physical level. |
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I think the women will get a kick out of this...
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xblj30_quatre-jeunes-suedois-nus-dans-incr_news
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I find it really interesting that on a vanilla dating site one of the questions they ask to determine your profile is "In a relationship do you take a dominant role, or more of that of a submissive". Interesting. |
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Well, decided to hop into the vanilla online dating pool. We'll see what happens. |
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A friend ask today if I thought I was in the best shape of my life. I haven't been able to work out for the last 3 weeks, but even if I had the answer would have to be NO. I think I look better than I have in the past, but I used to compete in swimming matches when I was younger, and today I doubt I could even finish one of those races. Even if I trained for it for the next 3 months I still don't believe I'd be as physically fit as when I was younger. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy with where I am, but I think to believe I'm in my best shape ever would be delusional. |
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Added a new pic, but lighting's all messed up. |
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Traveling next week and trying to put together a workout program I know I'll stick with while I'm gone. I hate how sore I am when I don't work out for a week. (Well, it's not sore to sit around, the soreness occurs when I get back into it). I need to add a new pic to document where I'm at right now. |
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I've got about .5 to 1 lb of fat on my abs I can't shake, so for the next 30 days the only thing I drink is water. That's the only explanation I can come up with why I can't get myself ripped again. Fruit juice may be healthy, but I think the sugars are just sitting on my abs. Guess we'll see. Maybe I should take a before and after pic. |
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Well June has started out to be a pretty crappy month. Just one day filled with bad news after another. |
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Is this really what women here have to deal with?
http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/8325689/the-meeting
It's funny, but I feel sorry for the women if it's even close to reality. |
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I read the following in a D/s book recently and felt it pretty appropriate:
So if we take those frisky needs out of the picture for a moment, what is it that we look for in a sub/slave? Companionship, unconditional love, protection, amusement and of course attentive service. We want our guy to obey, to make us proud socially. He is a Lady's faithful companion, her gallant protector, he fetches and carries for Her, he talks with her when invited to, he adores her unconditionally, he enjoys the security of being owned and strives to amuse and please her at all times. |
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Gave a ride to a hitchhiker today. I'm not a big believer that hitchhikers are dangerous, just people looking to get somewhere a little quicker than walking. Though, I'd only give them a ride if I'm the only one in the car. |
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DomCon is coming up in a little over a month. It would be nice to at least meet a like minded person(s) to attend together. I don't like attending those things by myself. |
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Back in town. Goodbye cold weather, hello sunny skies. A little green today, hopefully not due to any radioactive plumes. Happy St Patty's day!
Venus night at the lair tomorrow, but I'll probably stay home 'cause I'm not really comfortable playing with women I don't know that well. |
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I always thought it kind of odd to wait until Jan 1 to make changes to yourself and your life. Why not begin making them when you're aware of them? |
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Looks like the next West Coast Social will be on the 11th, so I guess I'm gonna miss it again. Oh well, there's always April, which will be the 8th. |
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Back on the road for a couple weeks, in a couple days. Gathering things up now because I'm always scrabbling at the last minute to make sure I don't forget anything. |
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So here's the thing I'm struggling with. Aside from work I tend to be pretty laid back with people on a lot of different things. I don't push on things which I believe are minor issues. I consider it a give and take type of thing. I give on a few minor things and the other person gives on a few minor things. What ticks me off is when I give I expect the other person to give from time to time. I will communicate exactly what it is I want from the other person, and usually it's minor in comparison to what I've given or not pushed for.
In this case it's with a new landlord who was supposed to do several different things when I moved into my new place. I let it be known that these things were supposed to be completed before I moved in. None of these things were major, so I didn't push them. The landlord finally came to see about painting a wall which was water damaged. However, they didn't have that color paint in stock, so it wouldn't match the other walls. Are you kidding me? How stupid would that look? I offered to go over and pick up the correct color paint. I would place the receipt in the envelope and subtract the amount from my rent. Oh no, if I want the paint to match that's custom and I have to pay for the paint. Really? Okay, if that's the way you want to play here's the list of the 8 things you were supposed to complete. The bucket of paint is probably about $20 the list of 8 things is probably about $600.
I think some of this may hold true in relationships. I'm typically the giver and don't feel comfortable if I'm receiving more than I'm giving. The thing is in my last vanilla relationship it got to a point where I felt she didn't appreciate what I was doing, so I simply stopped. Of course that just made things worse. In a D/s relationship I expect there to be a deeper level of communication and the Dominant woman letting the sub know she's appreciative of the things he's done, or whatever it may be she appreciates. Maybe that's a bad thought process, but it's one of the main reasons I'm looking to secure the D/s portion of the relationship first and then making sure the other things line up. I'm not sure if my thought process is screwed up or if that all makes sense. |
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Hmmm.. missed the West Coast Social again. Maybe next month if I'm in town and not traveling. |
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I'm always amazed at the number of women whose idea of D/s is simply "give me money" or "here's my wishlist on amazon, buy me stuff". Grow up!
Or
Online Domination only = I'm a dude who figures I can get you to send me money by pretending to be a woman. Do it now loser! Yeah, go fuck yourself! |
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Of course I've moved while my new driver's license is being sent out. Now I have to go to the DMV and get everything straightened out there. How I hate the DMV, about the worst type of torture known to man. |
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Well now I'm officially certified as a personal trainer. Not what I'm looking to do as a job, but good info and ability to have. |
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Been gone for a bit taking care of business in another state and also in the process of moving, though not far away. I'm gonna get myself back in the swing of things, but will most likely be traveling out of state until I have everything straightened out.
Oh, also back to being clean shaven. |
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Disclosure - I have a disease called malipunitis. It causes me to make really bad puns on numerous occasions. There's no know cure.
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I know there are subs out there who consider themselves weak and pathetic. If that's what you're looking for we wouldn't be a good match.
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One thing which I struggle with is the initail phase when a Domme asks me to tell her more about myself. I'm not sure just where to go into more detail. I've tried to cover most everything in my profile. I can go into more detail in different areas, but without knowing which area to delve into more deeply I fear that I may bore her with details of something of which she has no interest.
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Normally I'm clean shaven. Currently I have facial hair. It's not something I'm planning on keeping, just having some fun with. I bring this up because a female friend of mine told me the other day, "You're not going to keep that are you? Women prefer men to be clean shaven"
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I have an iPhone 4, so if you do as well I'm open to using the face to face app
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Well I still don't think I'm back to where I was before. There's still a bit to lose and a bit to gain in different areas. That's the problem with not eating properly. In this case I just haven't been eating enough and so the body can't build and burn properly. Oh well, posted the new pics, they're the last 3.
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Almost gotten my body back to where I'd like it. Still a bit more work to do. A couple new pics to follow.
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What a great fourth of July!! Yes, it would be better if it were a CFNM event, but one has to have something to wish for. |
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On a first meeting should the sub keep the conversation on a vanilla level? Or if the sub keeps the conversation on the vanilla level does it make him look like he's uncomfortable talking about the different aspects of a D/s relationship. Then again how much can you really discuss openly in a public environment?
Hmmmmm.... always pondering perceptions. |
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Am I the only one who buys vegetables to be healthy, only to find them about a month later in the back of the fridge as some nondescript mess? |
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Appears the scammers and spammers are out in full force today. Thankfully they can be seen coming from a mile away, or more typically 12,000 miles away. |
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I'm supposed to be getting 8 hours of sleep, but I just can't friggin sleep. Aaaargghh! |
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Changes in the body happen so slowly that it's difficult to see them from day to day. It's the reason why pictures are so important. Now to start week 4. |
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Bought a pair of latex pants and a latex shirt. Damn those things are hard to fit into. They were special orders, so when I get them I'll try to post pictures. However, I may not be able to get into them myself so the pictures could be delayed until I have someone to help with the shirt. The shirts the most difficult piece. It's like you have to dislocate a shoulder to fit the dang thing on. |
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Hmmm... Here's a good business plan.
1. Open up an online store
2. Go on CM and spam every sub you can find and demand they order your product.
3. Sit back and wait for the profits to roll in.
Oh wait, Beth3333 has apparently already come up with that business plan. |
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For those interested in CFNM the following link looks like a nice accessory for the event.
http://www.bdsm-gear.com/maleservingtray.html |
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4 months with no work outs. 2 days of light to medium work outs and I'm sore all over and have no strength in my arms. A 5 year old could beat me right now in an arm wrestling contest. It's amazing how weak muscles become when they're not being worked to their potential. Now excuse me while I struggle to get to my feet and get some more water. Sheeesh!! |
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So happy I can start working out again. Should take me about 30 days to get back to a nice form. |
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Odd, couldn't connect to CM for almost a day. |
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Looks like I'll be taking part in a Domme calendar next week. Sounds like fun. If they supply me with any pics I'll post them here. If CM doesn't reject them, though they seem more lenient these days. |
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Such a pain, can't even do ab exercises while rehab'ing the shoulder. Well, I can do normal ab exercises, but not ones which'll give me the abs I want, so the waiting continues (sigh).
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Not sure why I watch ghost hunters. There's something interesting about every other 20th show. I think it's just the possibility of seeing something shocking.
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Damn it! Bit my lip on Friday and have bitten it every day since then. Self-inflicted pain is no fun!!
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I made an Italian meatloaf tonight. The ground beef I buy is preseasoned so that it gives the meatloaf a bit more spice. However, before opening the package I realized I had purchased taco seasoned ground beef. Needless to say it made for an interesting "Italian" meatloaf. More like a Mexican meatloaf. :)
I did mention I cook, but I don't consider myself an expert.
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1 to 2 months of PT for my shoulder to heal. Hmmm... how to work out without putting my shoulder into it? Suppose I can just focus on abs for a while. |
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Finally decided to bite on one of the "add me to your yahoo messenger" requests. Yep a scam. kinda goes like
Scammer: Tell me about yourself...
The mark: I'm blah, blah, blah
Scammer: Oooh, sounds great lets do cam2cam
The mark: Okay we can do it through yahoo or CM
Scammer: No those sites don't work for me. Mett me at xxxblackbook.com
The mark: Went on the site and it requires a subscription
Scammer: Just sign up and cancel your subscription before 24 hours and they don't charge you anything
The mark: Nah, not interested, thanks anyway
Scammer: F-- you for wasting my time
Does anyone really fall for that line of crap? |
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Most people post flattering photos of themselves. The holidays and other events have taken their toll on my body and I'm putting up a before pic with one of the culprits. It's an example that one can lose weight and gain fat.(compare to my primary pic, taken about 3 months ago). I lost about 10 pounds and the latest pic will serve as a "before" pic. I'm estimating I'll be back in shape in time for summer, around June 1st. I guess we'll see. |
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Holidays take their toll on the body. Gonna have to update my pictures after over eating and under working out. Not too bad, but not as ripped as a couple months ago. Oh well, gives something new to shoot for.
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If you're looking for money or "tribute" then I wish you the best.
If you're looking for dependability, honesty and companionship, then put me to the test. |
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no matter how lame it sounds I love Disneyland and Disneyworld |
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Question: Why are there so many
women on here who want you to contact them through yahoo messenger? I
smell a scam, but not sure why or how.
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