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Thanks for looking, however, my schedule is now full. [ As of 1/24/12 ]

I'm Back! Somewhat amazed to find that there are so many old timers here, still looking. Glad to know that there is persistence still alive here. For those that might remember me, it has been FIVE years so..., I offer a service. Not a paid service, and not a sexual one. Although I understand that what you feel during encounters is just that. What you are getting from the connection. PLEASE, no communications that demonstrate that you have not read through this or that you feel I am exhibiting a prejudicial paradigm, really I am not.
I am offering a view that is held by vast numbers of my gender, and I have had success in helping those women (and couples) that have their own desire to become closer to that image. Yes, some of you have guessed correctly, I am talking about the "comfortable in my own skin" segment of the population that weighs more than they want to. That can be a conscious desire, or one deeply buried, there certainly is no shame in wanting to be "attractive".
Before you write telling me you already ARE attractive, no matter what you weigh, guess what? I agree!
What we feel about ourselves, the true deeply felt self image is all that we really have to have.
I DO NOT BELIEVE THAT ANYONE SHOULD FEEL BADLY ABOUT THEMSELVES BECAUSE OF A PERCEIVED IMAGE OF WHAT OTHERS THINK. The above is not an accidental cap lock.
Now that I have that out of the way, a bit about what I have been doing for almost two decades. The Collarme method of weight loss. Of course you have already had what I am going to write flash past your eyes. Physical chastisement as a means to losing weight. You will be surprised to learn that this actually works. Some, use this as a motivational tool that encompasses their own inner needs. However, sexual expression isn't part of what I do. The only touching that takes place, is when you need the sincerity of another's compassion -a hug, a holding of a hand - which is platonic in every way. If you would like to have a conversation about the totality of what I offer and are serious about losing weight, I am successful and you will be too! Note:
  • We fully discuss parameters, the what and how of what I do.
  • Real people with real goals ONLY please
  • There will never be a relationship or sexual activity
  • there is no cost
  • you get the potential to lose real amounts of weight
  • I get the inner satisfaction of feeding my dominant nature
  • when you reach your goal we can keep in contact but the activities are over
  • I keep in contact with a number of individuals that I have met over the years
  • I will visit you, but in order to make this work you need to be within a 125 mile radius of San Francisco
If you are intrigued or curious, respond.

If you are steaming and angry I would respectfully suggest that you may not fully understand what I am doing, as well as the fact that there have been many individuals that this has worked for in multiple ways; lost weight and really, no surprise, a new relationship that their new shape has helped to come into being.

If you really still feel the need to express your dissatisfaction with this post and have something to say as opposed to calling names, I'll take the time to read and politely respond.

Last word, some will notice that I have included Dominant women in my interest - don't be too surprised; even with the dynamic where submissive individuals flock to Dominants, there is sometimes the same need.
Pavithra
 
 Age: 29
 Livingston, Louisiana