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Texthibitionist floodgates opening in 3, 2, 1...
Oh, do you like to read? I loooove to write! ;)
It has been quite a while since I was involved in the "scene," so as I get back into it my wants and needs will likely change. At this time, I am focused on having intimate encounters with women. However, I'm open to making 'just friends' within the local community. (I loathe that this reads like a personal ad, but I suppose, to a degree, it is!)
Overall, Sex is more of a mental experience for me than a physical one - not necessarily emotional, but more cerebral. Physically, I am more attracted to women. Emotionally, I form stronger connections with men. With either gender, in order for me to be truly sated, I have to feel I'm doing something quite nasty, something very taboo.
I do like to Swing occasionally- with the right people, in the right environment. I've had full swaps with other couples and I've had single women join my partner and myself for encounters. (The idea of being a shared plaything or loaned out for pleasure is very exciting to me.)
I was also once the third to a M/F couple, eventually moving in with them to form a poly household. I'm open to doing some or all of the above again, if the chemistry is right...
I am most attracted to overweight people (yes, really), older men and women younger than I. I tend to prefer those with a rockabilly, skinhead, mod, emo or goth look, but intellect and a quirky sense of humor always draw me in.
As for my level of experience, I consider myself to be an intermediate sub and novice Domme. (Some inspire submission in me; some inspire me to be Assertive... based on what I sense from your personality. I'm fairly perceptive/intuitive.)
When I'm serving as a bottom, I'm into Daddy/girl or Mommy/girl, orgasm control, forced orgasms, cock or pussy worship, spanking, and degradation/humiliation. When acting as a Top, I enjoy facesitting, crossdressers, pegging, panty fetish, lipstick fetish, stocking fetish and foot fetish. Actually, there's very little won't at least try once or twice... just to be certain. ;0 (A fairly good gauge for my limits is: if it involves blood or shit, I'm probably not down with it.)
If you are considering contacting me in respect to any of the afore mentioned, erm, activities, there are a few other things I should tell you first:
- Drama: Pretentious, elitist, catty clique behavior irks me and I do not engage in gossip, rumors or he said/she said bs. I firmly believe that there are usually three sides to every story - yours, theirs and everyone else's and that the 'truth' is a combination of all of them.
- Socially: I'm more of a People Watcher than a People Person, so I'm not likely to initiate conversation in social situations. (Actually, I learn quite a lot about people simply by watching and listening; I notice when others are doing the same and may tend to gravitate toward them.) I might come off as aloof at first, since I am fairly quiet (but not shy, just rather introspective). Having been talked about by non-kinky folk for my reputation as a Slut/Whore, I'm more cynical about the motivations of those that approach me, but despite my "social issues," I'm very open once you draw me out and get me talking.
- Physically: I don't expect to appeal to everyone, nor should you :P
Although I am chubby/curvy/fat/bbw/plumper/plus size etc (200 lbs, size 18, measurements: 45-40-53), I am not stereotypically slovenly or sedentary. I am comfortable in my own skin and possess confidence without arrogance. I prefer being dolled up in a dress, with styled hair and flawless makeup. Sure, I can do tshirt, jeans, hair up or back and bare face too when I'm camping, out for a walk or on my way to yoga, pilates or water aerobics, but it's definitely not my favourite look. ;)
- Online Versus Offline Life: It is absolutely imperative that you are able to accept that performing in and producing amateur internet porn is one of my passions. (NO, I'm NOT here solely to spam my web services, but you are welcome to inquire about them privately, of course.) You don't have to participate in my online hobby in order to be in my life, just accept that I'm active in the adult industry and unwilling to give that up to please someone else. I'm not e-famous and I don't want to be, but I have to acknowledge there is a very real possibility that I could be recognized from the internet, so if you cannot handle that, you may want to think twice about getting too involved with me.
- Politics: I am Childfree and a quasi-Atheist [read: Quantum Theologist], but not _intolerant_. I'm empathetic and I can play Devil's(?!) Advocate at times. I have firm ideals and I am upfront about them. I like hearing different viewpoints, but I'm not out to convince anyone of anything or be converted myself. I like to discuss, not debate.
Still considering sending a message? Awesome!
I ask that those interested in getting to know me aren't seeking to change me or for me to change you, but instead to enhance each other - to realize the potential we possess both individually and together. It is also extremely important that you believe trust to be a necessity in bdsm relationships and that you feel it is built by candid yet tactful communication. (It is possible to be firm yet kind!)
Still want to know even more?! Feel free to ask me anything specific. Very little shocks or offends me anymore. Please don't assume you've said something I found untoward or that I'm not interested in you simply because you don't hear back from me as soon as you'd hoped. I often get overwhelmed with messages and I tend to spread myself a bit too thin online, sometimes taking extended breaks from sites.
I'm genuine and upfront; I never want anyone to say with regret that they 'wish they'd known [ insert fact about me here ] beforehand.'
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