Disillusioned, disappointed, depressed, dismayed, deflated, dispairing, dejected - and why not add another "D" – desperate to discover a REAL sub or slave on this joke of a site who is not an idiot fake, scamming scum, spammer or total timewaster. As you probably can guess, I am not impressed with the ongoing support and encouragement the site gives to his kind of scum, which makes it all the more difficult to meet anyone genuine, so I am hoping for a breakthrough and something to restore my faith. I am a mature but young minded, modern dom, REAL, sensible, sincere, reliable and seeking an ideally younger sub / slave to share exciting experiences , intimate friendship or especially a mutually rewarding LTR. I have considerable experience but not for some time now, having followed my heart into what turned out to be a very boring "vanilla" marriage and now divorced. Seems that conventional relationships don’t work too well for me and I need the magic of BDSM lifestyle to enhance it. I have great appreciation for all aspects of sub/slave personality and sexuality, which I like to explore, exploit, cater to and share in all ways. Play is play, and that is welcome, but I would also appreciate something with more substance as a proper relationship on all levels – sexual, emotional, mental and physical. I have a very flexible outlook and can be very kind, affectionate, nurturing and caring, but also hard, rough, cruel, very pervy and demanding. Many erotic BDSM interests but few inhibitions, so appreciate a dirty minded, needy and eager sub or slave with lots of enthusiasm, willingness to please and similar needs for this. I am semi-retired from professional career and have comfortable home and plenty of time and enthusiasm to devote to my special girl. Some interests include (but not essential requirements or limited to): Mixed age relationship (love younger girls into older experienced doms) A girl I can totally adore, admire, value and appreciate as well as treating as a dirty sub slut. Sexual use / abuse CP /discipline - spanking, caning, crop etc. (particularly like subs who are highly aroused by this) Bondage Humiliation Insertions, toys, objects, dilation etc. Erotic torture Intimate bodily inspections / examinations Provocative dress, appearance and behaviours Age play, daddy dom dynamics, shoolgirl scenes etc. Female excitement and arousal, masturbation habits, needs and pleasures Orgasm control and forced, prolonged or repeated orgasm by various means Tasks, exhibitionism, performing to instructions etc. Obedient webcam use, photos, intimate email Barbiesluts Female Bisexuality Teaching, training, guiding, developing novice sub sexuality and interests I only seek those with similar sincerity and enthusiasm to my own so willingness to share real photos essential, along with informative responses. No "one liners" or stupid short notes containing no relevant information. No "yahoo details" type replies – these are always fakes / scammers. Messenger chat after establishing initial communications here. As females very rarely seem to reply to male profiles (prove me wrong !!), most contact would probably be by me contacting you. My message won't be a stupid one liner, so please read it. If I have checked your profile and not contacted you, it is because I didn't think you would be interested - but if so, please get in touch. Interest / relocation welcomed from world-wide, but for obvious reasons, NO help with relocation costs in advance. This would be by reimbursement only if required. Those with relocation option stated on profile should make sure it is a realistic consideration. Let's explore and see what may develop. Hoping to hear from you but no idiot fakes and scammers – don’t insult my intelligence or waste your time by trying to pretend to be real – your time would be much better spent getting a life and seeking the psychological help you so obviously need.