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| like women who can be vulnerable for me – I enjoy seduction and the process of making a woman submit a little at a time. Especially if it’s an act she previously thought unthinkable, but finds herself doing because she’s surrendered to me and can’t resist getting me hot. I love extremely intelligent people who love to serve because it fulfills them
I would love to find someone to walk this path with me who is "relationship-oriented", i am looking for someone who is fully available; someone sensual, willing to have their limits pushed, a self-aware submissive who understands the big picture, truly wishes to be *of service* to a dominant/take charge man, with a sensual soul and a definitely a great sense of humor.
looking for someone to be friends with, first and foremost, to share vanilla interests with as well as kink, to laugh and hug and play with,
Physically, I'm good looking-very clean cut looking, 6'0", 195lbs, brownish blond hair-shortly cut and light blue eyes. Personality-wise, I am educated, sometimes silly-good sense of humor, someone understands responsibility that we all have, yet doesn't take life too seriously. i am extremely loyal to those that are important to me. While I definitely have an adventurous streak, my nature is more down-to-earth, a little introverted; I am divorced with two little girls who mean the world to me. Most important to me is building a SAFE and TRUSTING relationship with another. I will cheerish and protect you. I know what I want and what i dont want. A regular "mundane" vanilla sex life is absolutely NOT for me. I am looking for a passionate, all giving love/physical sex life, one that involves sex-toys, teasing, oral pleasure- absolutely love feeling your tongue all over my body, and i mean every part of my body, and I like the variety intercourse as well as anal and, of course, oral. Kinks that I have done include bondage, again sex-toys, some pain like nipple clamps and etc, pushing limits-teasing, public play-only as to something will NOT break the law (usually this is where some of the sex toys are in play....while out in public...where only the two of us know the real story or what is going on), role playing and probably a few more that i am not thinking about at the moment, but as soon as i am finish with this and i am laying in bed it will "pop" into my head :) I want a woman who is an active partner in our relationship and who is able to clearly articulate her desires and emotional needs and limits - expecting to have them respected and taken in to consideration by me as I lead our relationship.
Other "regular-non kink" things about me. I am ddf, i do not smoke, i usually only drink at a meal with the right complimentarly wine....oh meals can be soooooo great with the right wine and with the wrong one....can litterly have you "asking" for the the check!!!! I am an nature/animal lover and do love sports, especially betting on them :) Again, I have two girls and i am very active in their life; you know as a kid i really did not like Disneyland...thought the rides were kinda boaring, however as a father, it is a whole different perception. Aside, from the fun stuff, which they get when they behave; i spend time helping them in their schooling and such. So if i do not respond right away back, especially during a week night, it is probably because i have my hands filled at that moment.
Things that attract me are: integrity; good conversation with a women that takes to the time to get to know me both sexually and mentally; a women that eagerly and joyfully desires to please me- and vice versa...I want you to be satisfied/content as well; you must be intelligent with a good sense of humor and have a sense of adventure, a great smile-one that is sincere-a smile that wants me to kiss you-passionately kiss you!!!! ; you must be open be able to communicate-especially when you are upset. Of course, I am looking for chemistry, but one that is more of an "inferno," one that it is describe as "i cant get enough" of you, as you feel that you can not get enough of me. I want to be in love and loved unconditionally. I want to have no boundaries between us, no walls, no doors...nothing between us...where anything and everything is said to one another-our deepest secrets, fears, desires. I love it when you are with someone and you can both tell from one look what the other is thinking. I am very open to age, size, ethnicity and etc. I have been with women that were 15 years older than me who were "big" that were twice as attractive then a "younger/slimmer" women. Again, it is about the person as much as the "look."
Things I am NOT looking for: someone who is undependable. We all have our faults and etc, just dont lie about them. i am NOT looking for someone who is insensitive, or one who is closed-minded, someone who only thinks the glass is 1/2 empty instead of 1/2 full. ( i know it is cliche, but it is the truth!!!) I just really get turned off by the person who hates life and bitter about it and infects that bitterness to everyone they know. You know the person, the peson who can not even get through a meal without complaining about every aspect of it, even at a 5-star resturant....nothing is ever "good enough."
Feel free to contact me and ask any question you like.
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