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| We are looking for ALICE. If you are our "Alice" then read more and get in touch.
We are really looking for someone sane, stable but fun, who can be a part of our vanilla life as well as our kink life. Someone who knows when it is appropriate to act "freaky" and get "their kink on", and also when it is inappropriate.
We are looking for a LTR here. Friends, lovers.
With that in mind though, it is important to understand a few things.
First is chemistry. We need to click. All of us.
Second is, he is not going to play with the female sub. At least let's rephrase that. We've been involved in several relationships in the past (we can provide references), but he has never had the desire or need to play with them. Not saying never, we guess it would be chemistry, but so far that hasn't been something in any of the relationships.
Finally, have you ever seen the Brady Bunch? We've got kids......not quite six of them, but we have enough of them. So, if the thought of being the "Alice" in our relationship, with a BDSM/sexual twist (remembering the previous point about him playing), is something that could/would appeal to you. Then that is what we are looking for.
We would see it as eventually moving in, living with us (and our family). Being "normal" to the vanilla world, but not so to the kink world.
Again, a lot of this would depend on how we all got on together. How we clicked. How you integrate with our family. You might even have kid(s) of your own. Could you be normal in front of the vanilla world?
Final point. We move slow. Very slow. We want to ensure everyone does click and that the person we are introducing into our lives (and vise versa) are stable, reliable etc.
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