I am quite flexible about the sort of relationship I enter into initially, it can be just friends, or very intense, ldr or the woman next door. I much prefer to see a picture or two and don't want to play too many games in terms of telling or being told the truth.
I am less interested in bdsm (stupid term) than in a submissive woman who wants to move, quite possibly over a period of time, towards 24/7.
My physical preferences are for slim women - I've just never been turned on by BBW, although fine for friendship of course.