|
|
|
|
| I am serious about D/s and I would expect you to be as well. To me this is not about role play or a game, it is something much deeper and is a part of who I am. For as long as I can remember I have always craved to control others but I never ever imagined that others would want to submit as much as I wanted to control, until I discovered D/s over 15 years ago. I now cant imagine my life without it,
So how does D/s fit into my life? Well, I like D/s to always be there. It is not something that is turned on and off, and is certainly not just bedroom only. I expect you to always feel controlled deep within yourself, and to know your place. It is not just about chains and collars and whips, although if course they have their place. It is about much more than that, it is about how you feel within yourself. To me D/s is much more mental than it ever can be physical.
However, I am also realistic and expect D/s to fit into life. I therefore would never walk a sub down the high street wearing rubber and on a dog lead!! I like to be discrete. So in public we would look like any other loving couple. Of course, you would know your place in public a well and a knowing glance from me during an elegant dinner party would instantly remind you of your place. Above all though it would be discrete with friends and family never knowing, and you woulld still work and have friends and have an outwardly "normal" life, although you would always know you were owned,
You will notice I mentioned the phrase loving couple above. Theis important to me, I love romance and tenderness as well as the harshness of the whip and would only want a sub that I loved, respected, admired, trusted and wanted to be with long term for a caring romantic loving relationship with D/s the glue binding the relationship together.
If you what I have said strikes a chord with you and sounds something similar to what you crave then please feel free to drop me a line so that we can explore how we get along, as life is far too short to waste holding back!!
|
|
|
|
