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I have been in the lifestyle for about 4 years. I have a professional career by day. Yet, underneath that exterior lies the person I truly am... a passionate and sensual, yet sometimes forceful and demanding, Dominant with a need and desire to be able to guide a woman to pleasures beyond the norm. I am educated and feel there is always room to keep learning and expand our knowledge base, no matter how much you think you already know. I have always had a controlling type personality, but in recent years, and the more I looked into this lifestyle, the more I realized how well this fits me and who I am. I tend to be laid back and easy going, loving to cut up and have a good time, yet can also be strict, stern, and demanding when necessary. I have enjoyed and find satisfaction in being able to train and guide a woman to all she is curious about as she learns about herself and her true submissive nature. I also enjoy mentoring those that have questions and wish to look into this lifestyle in a no-pressure atmosphere and exchange. I do tend to lean to a more passionate side and way of going about my Dominance, yet can and will be forceful at appropriate times. I believe in positive re-enforcement, and offering care and support. I have discovered and continue to uncover my mild sadistic side. I do enjoy some pain infliction with the right person. I'm very much into the mental and emotional aspects of this lifestyle and how they play such a deep part of this type of relationship. Ultimately it's all about being there for each other, no matter the situation, and being able to meet each others needs through some level of power exchange within the relationship. For me, it's about seeing and feeling her desire to submit, and being able to feed that passion and flame that fire. She also has to be able to feed my desires and needs within this dynamic. This lifestyle is very much an emotional and mental way of feeling and being. Much more so than the physical aspects. You have to feel your Dominance and submission from within to truly understand this. Trust and respect are everything as is complete open and honest communication. Without those things you have nothing. I'm always happy to meet new people to be friends, discuss things, and learn from each other. Feel free to ask me anything you like. I'm happy to communicate and I'll answer the best I can! (So as to not be accused of hiding anything....I am married, but to someone not in this lifestyle - vanilla. We are not at all intimate, do have an open marriage, and she is fully aware of my activities.)
I am a strong advocate of a womans seduction. At some point her body will be willing to trust new experiences and succumb to your inner most desires . Very submissive desires. It brings me great pleasure to take total control of you, each and every day. Looking for a fun relations and an exciting fun woman who would enjoy same. Lets meet for cofee or a drink and see if we connect.
SouthernMink
 
 Age: 45
 Surrey, United Kingdom