Cogito ergo sum ...... Do ut des

Intrigued by elements of the lifestyle. Looking for experienced.
I am very new to this and looking to learn as not sure weather I am Master or a sub/toy/pet. Hopeing to meet some one who can guide me on this life style.. I am a professional person and enjoy many things in life and want to see what I like/enjoy about this life style.. hope to have the guidance of someone...

I enjoy life and all things wonderful in it dinners out or in, Music have a varied like in lots. If there is anything you would like to know about me please ask me.

I am a switch interested in bondage, and perhaps the lighter side of pain/discipline. As far as bondage goes, the heavier the better, and I'm a pure sensation junkie on the bottom end. On top, I always hope to create a convert to the ways of complete restraint and sensation junkihood.

As for the demographics, I'm forty, clean, unattached and I'm definitely done with vanilla. Also have absolutely no interest in cyber or cam, including those still beholden to some overseas cyberdom. Life is too short.
Interested in chatting and meeting with others who are interested in BDSM.

I don't have any preference to either Domme or submissive. I am looking for a female Domme or sub to play with or connect with for mentoring and play time as a submissive.

Essentially communication between us is imperiative. Negotiation and keeping the relationship open for both parties is essential. For me its important for all parties are heard regardless of status/role in the relationship.

In real life I don't bite as hard but it seems on message boards etc I need to be very clear and concise with my needs and desires.

Sometimes I can be as soft as silk and others times as hard as steel. I love to play and have fun.
I can be flexible to most topics if its legal.Even if I don't play with all activities, I don't mind watching others play.