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I am a 44 y.o. female spankee in Seattle, WA who has had a 3-year break from spanking due to big real life issues, and is interested in putting my toes back in the water and getting back into spanking shape. I am a life-long spankophile and real-time experience from the age of 20. I am also an anal-erotic type of girl.
I am looking for a male Disciplinarian to have regular sessions with, and perhaps some more relaxed spanking play as well. (Although, you know, Dom couples are not out of the question either.)
I'm experienced, safe, sane, easy-going, and straight-forward in personality. I'm courteous and appreciate courtesy.
I am seeking the real thing. Play sessions are great and welcome, and I love things like schoolgirl outfits and taking real reasons and putting them into unscripted role play, but what really resonates with me is having someone to be accountable to. Keeping a log book of offenses and behaviors I want to change and having them addressed.
I am looking for good, long, hard, no-nonsense spankings to tears and well beyond. Hand, hairbrush, razor strop, paddles, canes, switches, belt, straps, quirt, crop, etc. are all desired and I have all of those things in my collection.
Including!!(for those of you who are implement geeks and collectors like I am) the rare and sought after Nu-west hairbrush. I love that brush. It's *punitive*.
Sessions can and should vary, after all, it is about satisfying this need in both people... Single implement/single position session? Great! Many implement/ many position session? Excellent! Many sessions throughout an afternoon culminating in a pajamas-around-the-ankles, bare-bottomed, OTK hairbrush spanking complete with wailing and tears? Right on! Bondage keeps people from running out of the room. Soft gags muffle squealing and screaming! Yay! Sooooo many ways to have disciplinary CP scenes.
For those that are into adding some bottomhole and/or rectal discipline; (light cropping/whipping, figging, plugs, phalluses, ginger salve, chair in the corner with a punishment phallus on it, etc.) it makes me very happy to include it. I have a personal collection for that too. For a regular trusted partner, anal sex is also a possibility. For those that aren't into anal play, that's fine.
I'm not looking for a boyfriend, romantic LTR, or booty call. I have a Mate. He is perfectly happy to let me play on my own as long as he knows I'm playing with a trustworthy person and am safe.
He's not hugely into spanking, and not interested in roleplay or discipline scenarios, so I'm looking here for a partner/partners who really LOVE to spank and are great at it, and to whom discipline is second nature.
My mate and I operate on mutual respect, communication, and full disclosure. When playing without him I will engage in all kinds of spanking and variations of anal play & toy penetration. I need to be having an ongoing spanking relationship to consider anal sex.
You will find me honest, friendly, creative, funny, and smart. I don't do drama, and I'm not even a little bit crazy. I feel both people should be able to be honest about their desires regarding all aspects of discipline scenes so everybody goes home happy and sure in the knowledge that progress has been made.
I like get-to-know correspondence and sharing fantasies. I also have a ridiculous amount of spanking pics I like (my stash of spanking porn...*laugh*) and there are specific reasons I like every one. I'm happy to send some along with my thoughts to someone I am corresponding with. I find discussing an image with a Top and exchanging reasons about what we like and dislike about it leads to some very helpful and revealing discussions.
Take care,
D.
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