It amazes me how many women really want this sort of relationship and how few men actually want to be mentor.
To accept her goals without imposing his will on her.
To provide physical discipline when the goals are not met.
Maybe sex if you are both into each other.
Providing physical discipline implies that you are LOCAL.
I've met several women in St Louis who want this same sort of relationship.
None of can find a man willing to participate in the dynamic.
When I lived in Seattle and again in DC, this relationship dynamic was fairly easy to find.
Have men changed that much in four years?
Or is it a location thing? |