I realize this will offend some people, but it's my journal, my journey so who cares!  I wonder if anyone will actually bother to read this. 

     I am NOT interested in a Dominant who is more than double my age.  I would prefer someone relatively close to my own age.  I have no problem with being friends, I am not physically attracted to say a 65 year old.  That would be like submitting to my Grandfather!  We wouldn't have anything in common.  No thanks.

      You sent me a message, this does NOT mean I am your submissive.  Yes, I may be submissive but I have every right to choose who I submit to!  Sending me messages with random "orders" just means you will get blocked. 

      I will NOT give you my phone number just because you ask for it.  Nor will I call you when send a message stating "Call me (123) 456 - 7890".  If you do this, I will not reply.

      I am NOT 4/20 friendly.  I don't smoke anything nor do I do drugs.  If you are seeking someone to "smoke up" with, keep looking. 

     I am NOT looking to play games.  If you have no intention of ever meeting face to face (after chatting and getting to know one another), then keep looking.  This takes time, however I will not waste my precious time for some charade.   

    Being dominated is NOT just about the physical aspects.  It is also about the mental.  Both physical and mental aspects together make up a healthy bdsm relationship along with communication and set hard limits.  That being said, I am NOT looking for an online D/s relationship.  Nor am I looking for hypnosis. 

     If you took the time to read this prior to messaging me thank you.  If you took the time to read this and decided against messaging me, thank you for not wasting my time or yours.  If you read this and decided you are going to change my mind, you won't, so don't bother trying.