Well I have been out of town for a couple of days visiting some friends just got in tonight and its been a long day. If you have emailed me I will get back to you probably tomorrow or so. I am not sure how to put this than just to be blunt about it. I am not interested at this time in meeting or investing time into people that live more than two states away from me. While we do travel some I am really looking for close friends that I can spend some quality time with. I am sure there are some great dommes in New York and I know there are some fabulous dommes in California because I am friends with some of them. So look close to you your experience will be a lot more enriching if you are close to the people that you play with.