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derekj

To me a submissive nature is not a fetish or sexual practice. It is a way of relating to another person in an intimate relationship. My interests are only around long term, monogamous, loving relationships. I am actively seeking a relationship with a strong D/s component. In many ways I wish to assume the role of an old fashioned submissive obedient wife. I would like to have a clear up front understanding of the authority structure and seek a woman who is both comfortable with and would enjoy assuming the dominant role. I would agree to obey her. In return my hope would be to be loved and respected for who I am. While I am not fetish oriented in general, I am quite open minded regarding any interests a potential partner may have in this area. Any relationship must be based on mutual respect, love, and affection as well as dominance and submission. As a submissive wife I regard it as my duty to take care of my partner's needs ranging from the most intimate to the most mundane. With regards to sex my interests are pretty conventional, except that I would expect the woman to take the lead in deciding when and how sex would happen and be comfortable in prioritizing her own needs and desires. I believe that domestic discipline is a tool that dominant woman should have. I would hope it would be used seldom if ever, but it is important to reach an understanding up front. She has the right and my consent to use discipline whenever and to what ever extent she feels is needed. I am certainly not the type of person that derives any thrill from doing housework or other domestic chores, but I do like to work, I like to earn my keep, and by nature I am naturally obedient and do what I am told. I am also someone takes commitment seriously. When I commit to something it becomes very important for me to honor that regardless of whether it is fun or enjoyable at the moment.