I am seeking an individual or couple who are compatible with my life style, family, and values, and also with my interest in bdsm. I am seeking dominant(s) who are open to slowly developing a relationship based on trust and respect with a submissive woman.

Please do not contact me if you are looking for cheat on your partner. I will not meet you in secret, I have an adult son with a military background who will know who I am meeting, when and where; if this makes you uncomfortable you probably aren't right for me. I am very honest with people and expect the same.

You must also be local to me. I am not willing to relocate or travel long distances to meet you. I am not willing to engage in a lengthy period of email exchanges. I am also not willing to have erotic phone chat or phone sex.

I need to feel trust and affection in order to be submissive. I need to get to know you in a variety of venues, I need time to build a good foundation based on trust and integrity, I need to know if you have that magic touch... the touch that will open the doorway to my soul and release my true self.

I'm a very sweet, generous and genuine person who has alot to give the people I love. I have multiple references in the Seattle bdsm community.

Finally, for those of you who believe a woman's looks are the most important quality to consider. I am thick, and I love being thick and I will always be thick. I am also very attractive. More importantly I'm sensual, fun-loving, loyal, and one of the best friends you can have.

If you think you are a good candidate, please write me. You do not have to include a pic, I totally understand why some people are hestitant to send pics to a first time contact ... yes, I have met flakes here too!

If your contact is thoughtful, informative, earnest, and meets the criteria I have described in this profile you will hear back from me.