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Hetero Male Switch, 27,  Gilbert, Arizona
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I've been active on and off in the scene for almost a decade. I'm originally from the Midwest and moved out here to pursue a new (and so far wonderful) career. I am still learning a lot about the differences in the AZ scene, along with similarities (RACK/SSC and communication are obviously universals).

I switch. My role varies depending on the energy, mood, and arrangements of a scene. A firm, motherly tone can certain cause me to slip into a bottom mode while bratty or submissive actions catapult me into top space, at least during natural scenes. I have/can service bottom and/or top, though I prefer not to. I instead enjoy my selective stance on play partners while still providing instruction and conversation to just about anyone.

A few things about me
  • Goofy, fun, and likes to be carefree
  • Recent transplant from the Midwest
  • Plays guitar, rock-climbs, does freelance web development, gamer
  • Compassionate and thoughtful
  • Very open-minded and honest
Kink (just to name a few I top AND bottom with):
  • Typical impact play (stingy over thuddy)
  • Sensory deprivation
  • Shibari/Kinbaku
  • Some medical play
  • Roleplaying (LOVE roleplay)
  • Forced crossdressing (obviously mostly me)
  • Anal play
  • Diapers and/or Ageplay (the two aren't mutually exclusive)
  • Anything to render one completely helpless
I feel the best part of any scene or play is the aftercare. I love building that emotional connection with whoever I play with. Anyone can beat, dominate, or submit to anyone else. The quality comes with the aftercare and taking the time to really understand your partner(s) in the scene. It's a thrill and joy to learn what engaged them psychologically, emotionally, and possibly sexually in that scene.












 Male Switch



 5' 8"

 145 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Switch Women

 Lives For:

 Anal Play

 Crossdressing (Expert)

 Diapers (Expert)

 Humiliation (Expert)

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Strap-Ons (Expert)

 Whips (Expert)

 Arcade Games (Expert)


 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Local BDSM Community

 Being Massaged

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Sensory Deprivation


 Vacuum Stimulation (Expert)

 Board Games

 Card Games (Expert)


 Cybering (Expert)

 Science Fiction

 Web Surfing

 Alternative Music

 Rock Music


 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets (Expert)

 Museums (Expert)

 Cages (Beginner)

 Cane / Crop Discipline

 Corner Time (Expert)


 Electrical Play

 Enemas (Beginner)



 Medical Play

 Munches (Expert)


 Plastic Wrap Bondage



 Wax Play


 Comedy Shows


 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 Female Supremacy

 Goth Lifestyle

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music


 Clubbing (Expert)

 Garage Sales (Expert)

 Fire Play (Beginner)

 Housework Service

 Knife Play


 Obedience Training (Beginner)

 Speech Restrictions


 Blue Grass

 Curious About:

 Theatrical Scenes (Beginner)

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Body Worship


 Romance Novels

 Simulation Games

 TV News

 TV Sports

 1950s Lifestyle

 Victorian Lifestyle



 Sensation Play

 Oral Service

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay (Beginner)

 Hard Limits:

 Genital Punishment (Beginner)

 Domestic Service


 Needle Play (Beginner)

 Watersports (Beginner)

 Cuck Options

 Gorean Lifestyle


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