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| Moderately experienced submissive with strong desires for more. Typically have been with Dominant men into psychological and physical control yet have shied away from sadistic Dominant men. I am learning that it's not enough and am ready to explore my masochistic tendencies. I do not think I am into extreme pain but very open minded and wanting to explore the depths of my submission with a quality dominant who is evolved and very in tune with his needs.
Seeking that true dichotomy - jekyll/hyde persona. A single gentleman who is attractive, clean cut, conservative, very mainstream on the outside yet discreetly very deviant and wired to control. He must be very smart, in control, disciplined and selective in the sub/slave he seeks. He wants someone who is strong minded with a deep need to submit beyond the bedroom, yet patient in knowing it will take time/effort to break her.
Mutual trust and open communication is key. I am seeking that rare dynamic/relationship for something long-term. Nothing excites me more than appearing completely vanilla to the outside world where no one would suspect the depravity and perverse nature of what happens behind closed doors.
Please note I am not ashamed of my submissive nature but not open at all about it - my closest friends have no clue. I prefer to keep it that way and gravitate toward dominant men who also value discretion and have no desire to engage in the public scene or BDSM community.
A bit about me: good looking female, youthful, sexy, stylish, highly intelligent, nicely dressed and groomed, no tattoos, no piercings, d/d free, level-headed and sane. I am used to working in a male dominant field and have been quite successful, which has only intensified my need to relinquish control. I do not suffer fools lightly and need someone strong minded yet comfortable in his own skin; someone with high demands and expectations who is worthy of serving. Also prefer men who like that dichotomy in a sub/slave - a woman who is extroverted, outgoing, confident on the outside but a needy wanton whore on the inside ready to be exploited.
Serious in my search, willing to travel to meet and prefer direct communication versus long, extended e-mail exchange.
Generally speaking prefer late 30s to late 40s males who know who they are, what they want, and are serious in their search for the right sub/slave.
*** Well like most women on here I am being bombarded to the point where it's impossible to vet through all messages. Let me further clarify a few things so we do not waste each other's time:
a) Love children but have no interest in having any of my own
b) No interest in poly relationships
c) No interest in cyber or online D/s
d) No interest in bisexual, switch, submissive or attached men
e) No interest in men over 50 and no interest in men under 35 as they probably are not ready to settle down or have the maturity level to sustain this type of dynamic
f) No interest in men who are not natural leaders - I need to admire and look up to who I am serving. I want someone worthy of admiration
g) No interest in serving a couple
h) No interest in workaholics. I realize it is common amongst dominant men but you should at least be at a point where finding a sub/slave is equally important
i) Looks are not everything but they are important - I generally am attracted to clean cut, clean shaven, well dressed and groomed men that take care of their appearance.
j) If you do not have much understanding of the complexities and contradictions that lie within a sub's mind we will most likely not be on the same page
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