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Hello all! New to this site, but not new to the world of chastity orgasm controldenial. It has had a very strong hold on me since I was a teenager.
Many years and much experimentation and self discovery have passed since then. Now, many years later I finally have the emotional and financial stability I need in my life and seek a femdom partner to take control of my cock and my orgasms.
Ive recently decided to revisit chastity as a lifestyle - its been 6 or 7 years since I was last able.
I believe that chastity should be the centerpiece of an ideal TPEFLR, the axis from which other s of Her domination naturally blossom and extend. A penis habitually craves pleasure the way an alcoholic craves another drink. Left to its own devices, a cock will not only want to be masturbated numerous times daily, but also frequently pleasured by ones partner as well. Cocks are greedy and selfish by nature, always begging for attention.
A TPE based FLR removes that selfishness by placing the cock under strict physical control essentially transferring ownership of the cock from sub to Domme. Although the cock is still physically attached to the sub, theres no mistaking that the cock is Her exclusive property and subject to Her rules and regulations. She selaspects the device which physically imprisons the cock, and as its Keyholder, She alone decides when (and if) the cock is granted any parole from its tiny prison. To reinforce this ownership, he is trained to always refer to it as Her cock. As She has other dildos and toys for penetration if She chooses, Her subs owned cock is merely one of Her many toys, and as such its freedom (or lack thereof) is of limited importance to Her. As the sub, he endures nearly constant sexual frustration as a sign of his devotion to Her. She alone now decides when, if, and how his cock receives any pleasure or freedom.
Orgasms are granted solely at Her discretion, by whatever methods She finds most entertaining. A chastity device is merely an extension of Her control, and the sub should understand that every suppressed erection is really Her firm, disciplined hand saying no. His very sexuality becomes her property. Forbidden from masturbation and orgasm, She soon becomes the epicenter of his sexual universe, as She alone holds his sole hope of relief.
Ideally, the attention that the cock erly received is now channeled and re-directed to his Keyholder. Her body should be the sole beneficiary of the cocks denied pleasure. For example, Her toes now receive the sucking and blowjobs that the cock once enjoyed. His hands that once gripped the cock with lotion and jerked it off now instead provide long, loving massages to Her calves and thighs.
And he now pers oral sex on Her not as a quick prelude to intercourse, but rather as a slow, dedicated activity for Her maximum pleasure. Cunnilingus is now the main event for him when it comes to sex, since rarely will Her owned penis be unlocked from its chastity.
Hes trained to per oral instantly on Her command, in positions and situations erly undreamed of.
She may walk in the door from work and summon him to lower Her panties before even taking off Her shoes, putting his head up under Her skirt and eating Her to orgasm while she stands in the doorway. She may handcuff his wrists to the bedposts and straddle his face, smothering him with Her arousal and riding his tongue to repeated climaxes. In the midst of dinner, she may snap Her fingers and send him under the table, Her sweet pussy his dessert.
While pering oral, often his wrists may be cuffed or he may even be hogtied, yet the bondage shall be no excuse for not fully satisfying her feminine desires.
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