I'm looking to experience the true intimacy that's possible in surrender and acceptance. I've had all of the short dungeon experiences but it's kind of meeningless when the mistress is catering to my every whim through a pre organised discussion and there's nothing there for her enjoyment. It all defeats the purpose when it's not being done for her pleasure. My true pleasure comes from pleasing my mistress and earning the privallege to be collared by her. Serving her every whim, and proving my devoting through being willing to do absolutely anything for her, no matter how painful, humiliating or uncomfortable. There's true intimacy and love in the giving and receiving of submission.
I'm in my mid 30's and based in Melbourne.
I run a successful business and manage several staff. I discovered my bdsm-uality from a very early age, though I didn't know what it was. So I have always been in the bdsm lifestyle, one way or another. Despite my true submissive nature I am confident, intelligent and happy with who I am. Don't know how that works but there you have it.
I haven't had much experience pleasing a long term mistress yet but I yearn to experience a more meaningful connection and submission rather than a business transaction.
One of my favourite experiences was a session with a wiccan mistress who taught me the symbolisim of the collar and trained me as her dog boy for a session, she never asked nor cared what I was into and therefore didn't set the session around me, I was there for her pleasure. That was one of the most exciting experiences of my life.
What do I want from this? Firstly, I have no expectations of you at all, except to accept my submission (if you so choose) in the spirit it is given. I won't do ANYTHING unless you command me to do so. Whilst I'm with you it's not simply a roll play for me but it is a genuine submission. I want a mistress who wants to accept that submission and when it is genuine both ways there is no greater more intimate connection then to show absolute devotion by being in the total & utter control of another being, mind body and soul, there is no greater trust possible. Through the giving of my submission I hope to please you and hope you develope genuine affection for your slave/pet/toy (still using and abusing me at your pleasure) as I know I will develop affection for you. There is no greater trust then a Dom/sub bond and it creates a deep connection. It is of the utmost importance to me that our realationship is able to develope genuine trust between us.
Im into all things BDSM, especially new and unexperienced ones but the old favs are good too. I will like most ideas you have. I'm not into extreme pain however the feeling of mistress's crop is a pleasant reminder of how good the more pleasurable activities can be.
I have NO medical conditions and I'm neat and well presented.
I'm happy to communicate through this medium for as long as you like but if our minds connect I would like to meet in person, anywhere you may choose be it dinner at a restaurant or somewhere more private, I don't mind which.
Finally I hope to hear from all genuine people that feel we may have common interest, no matter if your looking for just somone to chat with, new friends, casual play or serious servitude. I'm happy to talk to all who wish to talk with me.