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| I'm hoping to be a live-in slave in a kinky poly household. I've served as both a sub and a slave before, though I'm currently not in a D/s relationship.
To save everyone a lot of time, I'm deaf. I can lipread if you remember to face me when speaking, and I sign fluently. My speech is pretty good but not perfect. If my deafness is a problem for you, or if you're not willing to put in the effort required to communicate with me, let's not bother trying to have a relationship that will eventually fail.
I've been told I'd make a good alpha slave, at least in households where the communication challenges are accepted. I'm organized, motivated, and enjoy doing a good job in all aspects of my life.
I'd prefer a household with both men and women since I'm bi and would like to have both in my life. I'm open to couples as well as larger households, with a preference for a larger household, since I think it would be easier for me to fit in somewhere that way and that's been a problem for me in the past. It'd be nice to have some people at least close to my age in the household, though I don't rule out older people who have poly homes and a succession plan.
I'm not a good match for extreme sadists, though I can handle pain and sometimes desire it. Most of the time I'm more interested in D/s, service, and sex than pain, though there is such a thing as too little pain.
I'm also not looking for abuse, continuous dehumanization, permanent captivity, being forcibly bred 6-12 times, anything involving scat, or being meat for cannibalism, so if those are your interests, please don't waste your time contacting me.
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Sometimes my inbox here is depressing, and at other times it's so hysterically funny that the only possible response is to collapse on the floor with laughter.
Those of you who are insane and egotistical in a laughable way have my thanks. You make tolerating the rest of denizens here a little easier.
Have a great day everyone. I wish you all luck in finding that which you seek. Truly. Just don't expect it to be me unless you have some sort of grip on reality.
For those of you that are sane, knowledgeable, and serious, feel free to write to me. You may have less competition than you might expect. |
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Koan for the day: If a dom sends a one-line message in a forest, does he make a sound?
Seriously people, many of you need to level up your conversational skills. If I can learn to write English with complete sentences and paragraphs, so can you. I'm not likely to be interested in a conversation with anyone who just sends me a one-line message, or with people who should have been able to tell we're not a good match just by reading my profile, especially the "Actively Seeking" section.
Also, if you're sending me a pop quiz about how deaf/Deaf people communicate because you don't believe I'm really deaf, save us both the trouble and just pass me by. Why would you want to start a conversation with someone if you already doubt their honesty? I genuinely don't understand that.
Life is short. Time is precious. Use it wisely. |
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I'm behind on some deadlines for work projects, so I haven't had time to keep up on my email here. If you've been waiting for a reply, you'll sadly have to wait a bit longer. If you're just emailing me today, it may take me a while to even read your message. Patience is a virtue. Sadly a pretty rare one on this site. |
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I've been amazed and profoundly disappointed by some of the people that can be found here. I had thought that getting messages about dog sex within 4 minutes of creating my account was going to be the low point of my time here, but today we have a new biggest loser, who took the time to add the following thoughtful message to my inbox, apparently because I hadn't read or replied to the message he sent before that:
"i'm not surprised you don't like ni-ggers, get in a gas chamber where your kind, jew turd"
First off, proper grammar and spelling would be appreciated, second, I'm not jewish, third, racism isn't the only possible reason that someone hasn't read your message yet, and fourth, do you kiss your mother with that mouth?
I wasn't aware that African American neo-nazis existed. Learn something new every day. I would have thought they'd have trouble passing for Aryan, but perhaps entrance requirements have been relaxed to keep membership up. I hope he someday finds a suitable match. With the approach he's using, I think it might take him a while. |
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For those who are wondering, I don't really identify as either deaf or Deaf. My username here was more a reflection of common D/s capitalization rules than a commentary on Deaf culture. I spend time in both the Deaf and hearing communities, and I'm bilingual and bicultural. And bisexual. I try to be bi in as many ways as I can. :)
In intimate relationships I do prefer to use ASL when possible, and cued speech otherwise. If you're not at least willing to learn cued speech (signing phonemes for me while speaking normal English), we're probably not going to be able to have a relationship.
As a rough guideline, most English speakers can learn to sign cued speech at a reasonable speed with about 6-12 months of daily practice. You can learn the concepts behind it pretty easily, but it takes practice to learn to do it as fast as you can talk and keep your hands in sync with your speech. It's sort of like touch-typing in terms of learning it and then practicing it so that it becomes an automatic habit you don't have to think about anymore.
I'd ideally prefer that people learn (or already know) ASL, but it's an entirely different language from English, and it takes most adults years to learn it well enough for it to be more useful than cued speech. I can be more expressive in ASL, which is why I prefer it. There are non-verbal ways to express things like tone and emphasis in ASL, that cued speech doesn't really help me with. Cued speech is much better than just lipreading though, since lipreading is error-prone and cued speech was designed to resolve the ambiguities. |
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If you message me and say "I didn't catch your name", you might want to pay a bit more attention. Just sayin'. |
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I get a bit behind on mail here sometimes. I'd appreciate a little understanding about that.
If the delays bother you, I'd prefer that you unsend an unread message, rather than block me. I just spent some time writing a nice reply to someone, only to discover I had been blocked before I ever read the message, so now I've wasted time that I could have spent replying to someone else, which just makes my backlog worse. |
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This might be one of those days when I should have paused before hitting send. |
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| Age: 26 |
| Copperas Cove,
Texas |
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