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If you read nothing else, read this: Despite the fact I am living in the UK, I was born and raised in California, and am planning to return some time this year (2011). I'm astonished at how many women will demand you read their profile in full, but won't read yours. If I had a dime for every "I'm not leaving the US"....
Read this as well: I'm tired of sending out introductions. Slaves can write to me for a change. One-liners and no pic get deleted unread. If you send a pic privately, it'll stay private.
I do not see BDSM as a "lifestyle". I see it as a life. I see it as a particular way of thinking, and making those ideas manifest in everyday life. To me personally, it's also a strict code of ethics and beliefs, almost like the Bushido of the old Samurai. I use my personality to dominate. I don't use threats, I don't bully or intentionally intimidate anyone. I simply am what I claim to be. So far it's been successful. It also means that I live by my code whether I own a slave or not. I cannot, and will not, simply turn it on or off depending on my current relationship status. That is hypocracy, and I find it abhorrent in the extreme.
I'm pretty sure I'm wired this way. It comes from years of staring at the covers of those old crime magazines with the poor female victim tied to a tree or something. I found that fascinating, and I wanted to be the guy who did it. (The tying, not the actual crime.) I honestly believe that men should be dominant, women should be subservient. That's it. Anachronistic I know, especially in this age of equal rights, political correctness, and other ridiculous notions, but there it is.
Let me stress something I cannot stress enough. I am beyond serious about this. This is my life, this is the way I need to live. Anything else is a hollow, empty life.
Now, what am I after. No limits and a true heart. I'm not going to turn anyone down because of race, weight, age or anything so trivial. You're either a slave or you aren't. You either think like one or you don't. I'd rather you were honest with me and tell me your shortcomings than tell me what I want to hear. I'm after a woman who either is, or wants to become, a domestic/sexual slave. If you're young enough to be my daughter, that's a road I'd love to travel down. No matter what, though, this is a permanent thing. Once you submit, that's it. No going back. You'll have no rights, no freedoms, no choice, no escape, no dissent. You'll be considered and treated as property. Be VERY sure that's what you want. I will also consider those seeking imprisonment/confinement, and possibly others. Show me what you got, and we'll see.
So what do you get with me, you ask? Well, you get an Owner who knows how to be an Owner. I have the patience to teach and train, but I am also strict and demanding. I will teach you your place. I will never let you forget it, nor will I allow any leeway. A command is a command, and there are no compromises. I am a sadist, I like inflicting pain both physically and mentally through mindgames and other surprises. However, I am not a savage. Mine is more like a surgeon performing a delicate operation. Slow, methodical, with great attention to detail. Anyone can cause pain. Not everyone can have you willingly come back for more. I also love micromanagement. Not a lot of men can, in my opinion, handle it successfully. They try, but between managing their own life, the influences of the outside world, and now a slave's life, is just too much. I, on the other hand, have done it and want to do it again. I am an Owner, not just a Master. My slave is property, and in my heart and mind, that's how she remains and that's how I treat her. That does NOT mean I'm insensitive or distant. But first and foremost, I own her. Anything that arises out of that dynamic is a bonus for both of us. I also have pretty good aim. I'll let you think about that a while.
I also have a sense of humor, love to mess with people to take them down a few pegs. I'm FIERCELY protective of what's mine, and would go to any length to protect her. I'm practical, but I do have wild ideas on as somewhat regular basis. I love good movies, intelligent comedy, a sci-fi fan and like the SCA and Ren Faires. I'm not romantic in the traditional sense...you'd get the thorns still attached to the rose. But I believe what sets me apart from most (ie Anyone watching Fox news or part of a TEA party) is that I haven't forgotten how to think...how to form my own opinions and not be led around by others...how to reason, and think something through to a conclusion. At the same time I can be pretty creative in a lot of ways. I can't abide blatant stupidity, hypocracy or dishonesty. I say what I think, and mean what I say. Sometimes that puts people off, but so be it. "Take me as I am, for I shall not change" said deSade. Words to live by, say I.
The choice of who to choose is ultimately yours, and yes that would be the last decision you'd make. You've been given all sorts of reasons why it should be me. And now I leave it with you.
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