****somene just asked me was I really 78lbs - ffs no, I'm 174cm tall (just under 5'9'' imperial), if i were 78lbs I'd be dead. I'm 78kgs, about 170lbs. This site is a shitshow.
The addendum, or actually just the rest of what i wanted to include...
The BDSM world, D/s stereotypes and categories, the 'scene' - don't particularly appeal. I'm not the leather clad domme shouting abuse and whipping some desperate grovelling idiot for the sake of it. Knowing an individual, their vulnerabilities,fears,wants,desires,needs - holding that power,pushing limits, seeing how what I do plays out across another persons physical being - that interests me. I'm careful not to cause serious pain or damage, emotionally or physically, which means I really need to know the people I engage with. I need to know how far I can take things, and that warrants a high level of trust and connection. I'm predominantly interested in men, but there are women who I feel attraction to also. I'm the only dominant in any dynamic, but there are situations where I enjoy a man who has some elements of switch. For example, if I wish to cuck an existing submissive, I may want to use another in a more assertive role, direct him to fuck me in a way that is more bull, in order to achieve something with my cuck. Equally that person may well be restrained, gagged, blindfolded and fucked by me in a variety of ways. Ultimately, it is whatever I want, when I want, how I want. Depending on the role you fill for me, the perimeters shift a little. In general, my submissive - male or female - presents as quietly confident, has a level of success in life, professionally or personally, is stable and shows no overt indications of their persuasions. The casual observer would not think you are submissive or harbour kink based fantasies. With men, I enjoy a broad spectrum in terms of physical attraction. As a dominant physical female presence, I enjoy the juxtaposition of a physically dom…
