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Hetero Male Switch, 38,  San Francisco, California
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Hey folks, I'm back (again).? At least I hope so, I've found it hard to hop back on the horse after so long absent. ? I am now a little bit older and have been knocked around a few more times; but I am still strong and I am still kicking. Most of my experience has been as a submissive; I've done it professionally, casually and in a long term relationship. But now I find myself exploring new grounds. I am in a new relationship with a woman I absolutely love, cherish and adore. You may meet her on here at some time, and at that point I will let her introduce herself to you. ? My girl has brought out some very strong dominant urges in me, and she also has me playing with the idea of sadism. We've been experimenting and exploring what D/s means in our relationship and in sex/play. We have found a few surprises and have had a lot of fun. ? We are now starting to go public, as I need advice and tips from other dominants and I feel she needs more than my perspective. Tonight (Jan. 8th 2014) is our two month anniversary and we are going to our first munch together. ? My connection doesn't allow me to come on very often, but I will do so as I am able; I can't wait for my girl to meet the many friends I have met and recently neglected on here. For those that are interested in friendship, the best place to find me (when I can be more active) is on the boards.












 Male Switch

 San Francisco 


 6' 1"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:


 Lives For:





 Foot Worship

 Hair Pulling


 Sensory Play

 Suspension Bondage

 Historical Shows

 Role Playing Games




 Intellectual Discourse


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Country Music



 Fine Dining


 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires


 Horseback Riding

 Ultimate Frisbee

 Body Worship


 Massage (Giving)

 Clothing Selection

 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish


 Theatrical Scenes



 Web Surfing

 Body Art








 Alternative Music


 Eighties Music


 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music

 Nineties Music


 Rock Music

 Kick Boxing




 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping

 Coffee Shops

 Going to the Opera







 Anal Play

 Canes and Crops

 Local BDSM Community

 Being Massaged

 Fire Play




 Obedience Training


 Sensation Play

 Maid / Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Wax Play


 Board Games

 Card Games

 Comedy Shows

 Horror Movies


 Online Chatrooms

 Online RPGs


 True Crime







 Paranormal Phenomena



 Political Activism

 Female Sovereignty


 Classical Music


 Opera Music

 Punk Rock Music



 Seventies Music


 Amusement Parks

 Flea Markets




 Housework Service

 Plastic Wrap Bondage


 Puzzle Games

 Simulation Games

 TV News

 Blue Grass

 Folk Music

 Show Tunes

 Curious About:

 Antique Shows

 Martial Arts


 Electrical Play

 Genital Punishment

 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Control






 Garage Sales



 Modern Primitivism


 Romance Novels



 Hip Hop Music

 New Wave

 Pop Music






 Skate Boarding


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 G-spot Service

 Medical fetish play

 TV Sports



 Electronica / EDM

 New Age Music

 Hard Limits:


 Erotic touch



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Journal Entries:
10/8/2008 9:44:45 PM
Wow, it's been over two years since i've met Ma'am; and i've been absolutely and unmistakably Hers' for nearly the entire time.
I've been collared by Her for over 6 months now (though sadly, the collar itself did not enjoy a very healthy lifespan; actually falling apart while later watching the same movie that She and i were watching when She bestowed Her collar upon me... spooky, ain't it?  But while the physical device is temporarily absent, that does not change the truth and emotion behind it.) and it's made me a horribly happy boy.
Alot has changed in and with the family since i climbed aboard this long, strange ride that i'm on.  i have grown as a man and as a submissive whilst under Her guidance.  And guidance it is, She does not micromanage or control every little aspect of my life.  She has laid out a small number of simple ground rules and allowed me to make most of my own decision from there, always sure to be there for me when i need Her support and advice.
I love Ma'am and the family She has brought me into; like any family we have our drama and disagreements, but we are always there for one another.  And isn't that what family is really all about?  Not always liking each member, but loving and supporting them.   Actually greater than blood, for this family is one that i have chosen to be with and that counts for alot with me.
Well, nearly two years of being with Her have passed; and now we will be moving to Pennsylvania together, where i will be living with Her and Her Husband/Dominant who i love as i would an older brother and close friend. 
As a submissive and one totally in love with, devoted to and needy for His Owner; i am counting the days with baited breath, i'm so fricking eager for the move that i sometimes annoy myself.
As a predominantly solitary and emotionally distant person, i'm terrified at the thought of spending so much time near and around someone that i am connected so strongly to and that i can't just walk away from on my own whim. 
i'll be starting a new life, different from anything i've ever known before.  Living north of the Mason/Dixon for the first time in my life in a place that actually have all four seasons along with the weather associated with them.
So... i just felt the need to update a little; sorry for the rambling nature of this little slice of life.  So much going on in my life, and so many different emotions within about all of it.  i'm a new person, about to enter a new life; let's see if i'm up to the challenge. 
At least this time i won't have to do it alone.

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