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Hetero Male Dominant, 46,  Henderson, Nevada
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Wanted to add a couple of things... * Discretion is paramount for me. I am a very private person. * I love red heads. That's not to say that I'm not interested in non-red heads (I am), but I'm just saying, red heads are beautiful. If you are a red head, I'd love to hear from you.

* Please... for the love of God, please, be sane. My last two submissives just were plain wack jobs who really hid it well at first. I need sanity in my life and stability. Is that too much to ask?

* Distance is not a big issue for me. I have a job that affords me the ability to live wherever I choose. While I'd prefer to stay where I am, for the right submissive, I'd move.

* I don't mind children. Either existing ones or wanting to have one. I've had mine (five of them in fact - all older and out of the house now) so I don't need to have more but I am fine if that is your desire. I have some experience doing 24/7 in a house with children, which naturally is more complicated.

I'm a **mature, Loving Dom with a sadistic streak and a big heart** and a life that is settled in all respects but one, finding that one that I can love now and forever .... That search has been long, frustrating and heartbreaking. I don't give up, and I will find her.

The bottom line, for me, is that the connection with my submissive is first and foremost. I'm not looking for someone to just play with, I'm looking for a lifetime partner, who shares my passion for each other and this lifestyle. As a result I'm not interested in games or any kind of crap. I'm not looking to make friends (though I do like friends). I want to make a life with someone. I'm willing to take someone who is new to this lifestyle and teach them, or someone who has been in it a long time.

Likewise I won't play games with you. I can pretty well tell if there is a possible connection between me and another quickly.... if I feel it, I'll tell you. If I don't, I won't waste your time.... From there, we just take it as it goes knowing there is a goal in the end.

I don't get all wrapped up in titles (sub, slave, slut, whatever), I get wrapped up in the relationship and what works for us. What I seek is someone who desires a full time 24/7 relationship.... again, what form of that relationship takes depends on what form we want to give it.... I understand the realities of 24/7 having lived it. I also understand the realities of BDSM, and the growth and bond that it can form between those involved. There can be no deeper love than that in such a relationship.

I want someone who feels the same passion that I feel, who will desire me as I desire her. She needs to be someone that when I'm with her, I don't care about anything or anyone else. If you want someone that thinks about nothing else but you when he's looking deep in your eyes as he applies nipple clamps and thrills at your reaction, then I'm the one. Finally, you need to enjoy and crave the intensity of BDSM, not fear it. I want you to push me as much as I push you.

I expect the same from you, that your desire is only to please me, to be with me, to have me be your owner, dominant, master, whatever. In the end, in the right relationship, you would desire to do whatever pleases me, because anything less would be disappointing to us both.

What I have to offer the **right** woman is more love than she has ever experienced in her life. I offer a strong man, who has made his success in everything but his love life. I seek a submissive with the capability to love as deeply as I can. I seek a submissive who longs for BDSM in her life, longs for a strong hand to control her, longs for a man who will protect her and share a life together that others just dream of.

Sometimes, we have baggage and we are hardened. I've got mine, you have yours. Let me help you work through your baggage while you help me work through mine. Together, we can be better than we were. Two halves being more

My Ideal Person: My ideal person is sane, first of all. God, please be sane will you? She understands her need to submit and is comfortable with that need. She wants to please her master in all ways. She appreciates her master such that she always takes care of herself, keeps herself clean and is always respectful.

She is not afraid of being led. She loves when her master holds her tenderly and just dotes her with kisses or wants to hold her hand. Likewise she loves her master when he takes her and uses her, leaving her a mess when he's done.

She understands and relishes her masters sadistic and firm hand, and she also relishes his tenderness and kindness too. She longs to submit, longs to be taken, longs to see into the depths of her master eyes as he takes his pleasure.

She is very open minded, willing to try just about anything, loves to travel, and has a need to always care for her master in every way.

She simply is submissive, simply has the mind to serve. She does not get caught up asking if she's submissive or a slave, she simply needs to make her master happy in whatever form that is. She needs his love and his acceptance to truly complete who she is.












 Dominant Male



 Willing to Relocate

 5' 9"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

 Lives For:





 Breast Play


 Cane / Crop Discipline


 Being Massaged


 Hair Pulling




 Mental Bondage

 Sensation Play


 Lifestyle BDSM


 Amusement Parks

 Fine Dining




 Martial Arts

 Scuba Diving

 Anal Play

 Body Worship



 Housework Service

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Maid / Butler Service

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Deprivation

 Speech Restrictions

 Suspension Bondage

 Vacuum Stimulation



 Wax Play



 Science Fiction

 TV News


 Intellectual Discourse

 Paranormal Phenomena



 Old Guard


 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Show Tunes



 Kick Boxing


 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Musical Theater








 Corner Time




 Eye Contact Restrictions

 BDSM Rituals


 Masks on Partner

 Modern Primitivism


 Outdoor Bondage

 Role Playing


 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games


 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows


 Web Surfing



 Conservative Politics


 Libertarian Politics


 Political Activism

 Alternative Music


 Country Music

 Electronica / EDM


 New Wave

 Nineties Music

 Seventies Music




 Online Chatrooms

 Puzzle Games


 Curious About:

 Renaissance Faires


 Electrical Play

 Local BDSM Community

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Fire Play

 Medical fetish play


 Clothing Selection

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play



 Theatrical Scenes











 1950s Lifestyle

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Goth Lifestyle


 Victorian Lifestyle




 Going to the Opera

 Opera Music


 Bar Hopping

 Hard Limits:

 Genital Punishment

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