Feb 18, 2014---

I met a woman on datehookup who lives 1 hr from me but she works locally

The first time we got intimate, I choked her and it was clear that she like it.  But I didnt over do it.

The next week I had brought coarse rope and a noose and had her in it most of the time.  Clearly she loved being there to serve.

While I was forcing or training her or doing the things I do, I fondled her repeatedly and it was very, very intense.

Her newness to this lifestyle was a revelation.  She was 50,  intelligent and never thought she could do these things, but I am a clever dom and brought new tricks, positions to the table.

BUt she wasnt divorced and it became more difficult for me to maintain a long term thing for personal reasons...she too had personal issues...So around late january it ended

My relationship with A began on craigslist 6 years ago.

She knew how difficult my exwife had been, and A herself was feeling distraught over her dad's recent marriage to a woman younger than A.

This made the daddy-daughter dynamic significant, and i pointed that out to her.

A was a physically imposing bitch on wheels in public with a magnificent chest.  She had the type of boobs that every man and every woman in a room would notice.

I, on the other hand, have not been a breast man because I never liked staring at a woman or ogling her.   It wasn't my style, but I know that a lot of guys are like that.

Anyway, my relationship with A was behind closed doors.  She and I were both married.

She played up the daddy daughter roleplay stuff INTENSELY everytime.  In addition she loved to please me orally.   It got to the point that I would take her head off my shaft and make her repeat something naughty I thought up at that moment.

My head would be spinning because, in truth, it killed me to have her stop sucking.

But she smiled as I conjured up something erotic and naughty and repeated it so that she could be allowed to suck daddy again.

I got rougher and rougher.  I slapped her face, and in doing so , felt the heat rise to her face against my balls.  Wow.

I pulled her hair.

I had never--and to date--have never never been this rough with any woman, but A smiled at my creative naughtiness

And then one day she wanted me to do this in front of her husband..that's when things got weird........

A few years after T, I met a woman online who happened to be in RI.  It was a date of convenience.  

It was one of those "dates of convenience".  She was divorced and the kids were away for the night.  She has a responsible job, and I showed up looking like the pictures I had sent.  In other words, she knew I was safe, clean cut, sober and friendly.

She sparked a joint and we smoked it in her warwick RI kitchen.  Not soon after that she was eager to head upstairs.   

Well, that was interesting.  She was eager to play...fast!  Even for me, that was fast.

She was a bigger woman, but a nice, normal mom working hard and balancing home life.

Because of her size I could risk some rougher play and she loved it.

It became crazier when she squirted multiple times.  It has been experience that women who squirt do have a higher sex drive and enjoy the mind game that I play making them do menial or naughty tass in order to get what they want.

my journey as a Dom did not start with some sort of plan

I was divorced in the early 90s, and I met women through newspaper personals here and there

One day I had a long series of phone chats with a bright, divorced mom 9 years older than I.  She was hesistant about meeting, but she was very loyal.  She wasn't scared so much as -- would discover--she had her own secrets.

I pressed her at one point to meet because I had a company function in CT, and I needed a date.  (A series of snow storms actually did factor into our delays too).   

We dated a few times before we went to bed.   At some point she asked me to spank her, and it shook me.  I was very reluctant.  I was a 1970s era knee jerk liberal who would never dream of hurting a woman, but with "T" I was able to witness  our intense dom sub play was.

We never called it that.  Or used BDSM  or anything like that.  Some of the ideas and experiences she had had with her ex shocked me because they seemed so crude or demeaning.

Over time all the stuff I had read--this was in the mid-1990s--was preInternet.  But T's experiences and interest in pushing me, plus the surprises I came up with on my own made ou

Our intimate moments extremely intense, week after week after week.

because each of us had preadolescents from our marriages, we got together on weekends.

The thing is, it was a lot for me to be a stepdad and for her too.

That's what ended it, not our private times together

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