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Hi, I see the kinky world as a source of pleasure, beauty and possible relationship. I can hardly define myself just in Kinky terms. I do not see power as someone submiting or toping, but rather as the possibility of one to be able to stand for what she/he value. It's fairly interesting to see sometimes the same folks on vanilla and kinky posts. It's sad that both can not be united. I love to travel, photograph, discuss with friends, create and also I do have a day job. The kinky world is the expression of vitality and creativity that sparkle our life. If I believe in equality, at the same time I do not make any effort to be around people I dislike and I speak freely. As coming from Europe, this did put me in some trouble. I'm not religious, neither under a therapy and did not survive some dramatic past experiences. There is a fine line between "winner" and "loser" that is just fine to walk. I wish that the "cuddling time" can be nice and smooth with some interesting conversation and bluring the line between vanilla and kinky. On a strictly "kinky level" I took a test and was "diagnosed"(LOL) as switch 40/60 top/sub. I think I'm more bottom than sub.Those terms are simple aspect of pleasure and I like to cross them. I was ask on a scale from 1 to 10 what's my pain tolerance and I said 2-3....well the misunderstanding is when you consider it as pleasure from an outside view point the 2-3 may look like 7-8.I strongly believe in equality and the fact that change is real. This is why I wrote also on the vanilla aspect as I simply do not separate both world. If I arrive in front of a door I will open and if you are there, man or women, I will let you pass on the based, first come first open. I was born in a country that elected a gay man, and that was never an issue during the election. Here in California, we have proposition 8, 13, Arnold and Ronald Reagan....do not tell me that California is progressive! In the US the only victims as a group are the black folks because there is no hope for them! So many times people misunderstand my position, kindness and equality does not translate as submisive. I love costums when they are well done, a plastic wrap is just beauty and great sensation, specially if I include some toys inside you.I'm very interested to develop more my skill in bondage...and intercourse are great moment. I'm not so much into public games, however a wireless butt plug is always a great toy ...specially at work....but the chances to have a partner at work are small. Let's say that public while still private is great.I'm very loyal and I'm looking into a long term as I love the blending of both world. I top better if I know you and trust have reached a level where we both feel confident. Topping should be a source of pleasure. Now there is the question of poly. I agree with this but still it should be a very few long term partner. I'm not into changing quickly of partner and everyone should meet everyone and appreciate each other. I fell strongly in love 5 years ago and even if she does not want to speak with me any more, I will always love her. Once I love someone, it's fairly hard for me to stop...I simply do not see any reason to deny this. One of my limit is religion, I know this is not kinky,,,but I need to be able to relate to people and religion is simply not part of my life. An other limit is that I want to be around people who do have a sense of beauty and that include their body. I love the feeling of those belly muscles, the small breasts that fit so well in a mouth. More to come in writing and photos,

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secretself75
 
 Age: 26
 Birmingham, United Kingdom