Collarspace.com

I'm a seemingly conservative single lady who works hard to maintain office, home, children and pets. I do not want someone to take care of me but instead want someone who can take me away. Looking for someone with whom I can let down my guard; someone that can see me cry but not take advantage of the tears; someone that can lead me to places I've been afraid of seeing; someone that will encourage my secret nasty sexual desires without judgment. He/She must be intelligent; stronger than I; must be true and worthy of my respect; a skilled dominant who knows when to be cruel and when to be gentle. I can accept discipline but not pain for its pleasure; a bit of humiliation carries its weight with me.

Discretion is imperative; respect required; trust worth earning.

3/17/2009 1:26:29 PM
I get the impression that many of the “Doms” on this site are really just men looking for kinky sex they can turn off and on at their will. Is there any interest in getting inside a sub's head or is.. (damn, those ads really are distracting - This one is a close up of a woman's flower being stretched open by clamps attached to her stockings. Not exactly titilating but it does make one lick her lips.) Anyway, it seems to me that a relationship with any of these men would require topping from the bottom to keep it from going vanilla. No creativity; no initiative; no exploration; very few complete sentences. Maybe I'm wrong. I hope I'm wrong. Prove me wrong...please.
3/13/2009 11:53:30 AM

Like most people these days, I've been feeling edgy, uneasy, a soft nervousness. I'm feeling and breathing in my neighbor's pain, fear, and anxiety. (Side note: I'm trying to write this yet finding myself tremendously distracted by an advertisement along the bottom of my screen. It's a photo of a restrained woman squatting over a black dildo while trying to balance on a wooden beam. Her flower is shaved and exposed, the dildo barely entering her...yumm. I digress...)
I've made a conscious effort to avoid news sources which exploit and perpetuate the negative energy. I've decided this will be a time of positive transition for me -  change, inner growth and enlightenment. If I haven’t answered your messages - thank you for the interest and I will reply when I figure out who I want to be when I grow up. Still cannot get over the image fore described and demanding my attention. ;) The question is: are my panties dampened by the thought of being that woman wanting to feel the hard toy inside of me yet restrained from pushing myself further down its latex shaft OR is it the thought of returning to the other side of the cane and being the one to tighten the restraints, making her body beg, teasing the swollen bud…

JoJoRaven
 
 Age: 52
 Swindon, United Kingdom