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I've been advised that it is best to "blow sunshine" up people's ass's, opposed to being honest about the positive qualities that I have to share; and the positive qualties that I hope to encounter in a man, Dominant and friend. By this stage of my life I've lived to please others, overlooked and swallowed unkind and hurtful antics from people I trusted and loved, and perfected the fine art of behaving like a doormat, thinking this was as good as it gets. I know better now and that woman has left the room. In her place is a woman who knows her worth and has the self esteem and confidence to assert herself. I am a good person with a warm & loving heart; a good friend whom can be trusted and relied upon to be honest, devoted, honorable, loving and kind. If that kind of friend appeals to you feel free to say hello. :-)

12/31/2009 10:02:55 AM
I sincerely appreciate and value honest, candid and honorable friends.  I value and respect them even more when they exhibit the strength of character to be honest when they know they may inflict pain and heartache; because they know that a lie hurts much more and does more damage than the truth possibly could.  Give me a truth that tears my heart out and makes me feel something instead of the false sense of security that lies produce.  Anyone with half a brain that listens to their gut feels deceit anyway; whether someone admits it or not. (evidently I've been knee deep in a false comfort zone and needed to vent a little, please forgive my temporary self indulgence)
Forceme2pieces
 
 Age: 46
 United Kingdom