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I am a thirty-something married hetero with confused, conflicting feelings about my secret erotic fantasies. I would describe myself as sensitive, smart, and passionate. 6'0", 185 lbs, clean cut, and blue eyes. I have recently found that I extremely turned on by attempting to be much more uninhibited in the bedroom, and am finding that I enjoy a bit of mystery, a wee bit of sensual erotic pain, a lot of foreplay, with maybe a few toys thrown in the mix. I feel that I have tried everything to get my wife involved...I have tried candles, bath salts, massages, playful love notes, candlelight dinners, lingerie, passionate and sincere complements, a romantic vacation for two...etc. I have pulled out all the stops for romance.... I even began wearing sexy men's lingerie and shaving myself.... however, my mate is much less enthusiastic to explore my erotic fantasies (or hers). I did convice her to tie me up, spank me gently but firmly, and to use a toy to penetrate me...MUCH to my delight, but I could tell that she was not into it. I have found myself wearing my thong and nipple clamps to work, and am searching for someone to take control of me, make me submissive to HER desires, yet is willing to fulfill my fantasies as well. I am looking for a DISCREET relationship, in whatever capacity you would like me to be involved with you, even if it is just to talk and help each other through a similar circumstance. I would also be very interested in watching a couple that is willing to let me into their private bedroom, to maybe teach me a few tricks. I am looking for a sexy, take charge lady that desires to dominate a willing man, and is willing to be gentle but firm with me. I am waiting to hear from you and begin helping you explore your secret fantasies too! Seeking: To begin, I am seeking someone that is mature, and able to be involved in a discreet relationship. I am seeking someone who enjoys romance, and is willing to share their most innermost sensual erotic fanasies with me. Someone who is confident in themselves..... and is uninhibited enough to show me just exactly how sexy they are. Sexiness is an attitude, not just your physical appearance! If you enjoy being with someone who is passionate, caring, and is willing to make your fantasies come true... please contact me!
MistresiAm
 
 Age: 28
  New Jersey