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cureandcause

Discretion is quite important to me. If that, and the resulting lack of pictures and personal information on my profile is a deal breaker for you then so be it. If not the please read on and message me if you like what you read. I am more than happy to share these, and lots more besides, once I get more familiar with you. Hey there I recently discovered that I am I to BDSM. My partner at the time was somewhat submissive and she wanted me to dominate her... and it turned out I loved it! Needless to say I want to continue to explore and embrace this new found passion of mine. Although to say that it is new is probably incorrect, the desires and tendancies were there all along in hindsight. I have always (somewhat guiltily at times) enjoyed porn that featured rough sex, extreme objectification of women, rape fantasies, etc. In my own sex life I had always preferred to feel in control, to be in charge and feel obeyed. What is new is the realisation that this was just the tip of the iceberg and that it was perfectly accpetable. And, even better, that there is a whole community of women out there who are very willing to be on the recieving end of this. So why am I here? To meet women who share my interests and are willing to help me explore them. This can take the form of pen-pals, friendship or sexual partners. And what are said interests? So far I have learned that I am into throat fucking and gagging, spanking, slapping (face, boobs and especially pussy) choking, hair pulling, talking dirty/insults, photographs and videos, cum play and facials, biting as well as being bitten and of course everything to do with rough sex. Not a bad start huh? In terms of what I think I would like but have not tried yet; the top of the list has to be anal sex. I would also like to try "consensual" rape, restrains and bondage, public sex (maybe!) watersports and costume play. I am open to any other suggestions too, like I said I am here to explore. I still enjoy vanilla sex very much (I'm already extending my vocabulary, go me!) and I like a kiss and cuddle or a blowjob anytime it's going. In fact, one thing I love after a good rough sex session is to lie holding and stroking eachother afterwards whilst talking. Something about the contrast between the two activities. FYI I would not say that I am looking for a relationship simply because I don't believe one ever should. Relationships, or certainly the worthwhile ones, just happen when and cannot be actively sought. Also, having just gotten out of a relationship getting into another one is pretty low down on my priority list right now. Time to explore! Like the sound of that? Message me and we can talk. Looking forward to hearing from you :)
heartseeking
 
 Age: 20
 Canterbury, Connecticut