Have at least two friends who are active on here, so I figured I'd give it a shot. I'm a relatively recent transplant to the city, moving here last March from somewhere with a bunch more trees and lot fewer people. In everyday life I'm a friendly and harmless nerd, kind of wordy (can't you tell?). In that capacity I'm always happy to chat in a coffee shop, or play a board game, or go to a museum, or go for a run. I play piano and make pottery at the wheel and hang out with friends at the bar and stomp around on my ddr mat.

In private I'm dominant through and through. There I prefer to be addressed as sir, and enjoy slowly controlling my submissives right where I want them. Things that turn me on: making a shy and conservative girl wear revealing clothes and no underwear in public, walking her around wet in the legs with all those eyes, maybe making her pee behind a bush when no one's looking (or when someone is looking); blind folding a girl and making her go on webcam naked in a chat room full of onlookers, forced to do shameful acts and into shameful positions; tying a girl up with her own clothes or rope or duct tape, to be dangled from above, or forced and bound to kneeling, or bent over and legs splayed; to make a girl want to pee and only let her when the orgasm at last comes. For those that can handle it, I like to play coach or drill sargeant, making them run or do pushups, having them tell me yes sir and no sir, giving them increasingly harder tasks over time and pushing them into that gray area where they might not be able to go on, and humiliating and punishing and fucking them when they fail, but seeing them make progress over time. I want to see you struggle. I want someone who is refined but seeking to break out, eager to serve, resiliant to failure and abuse, horny as hell, and who likes the idea of reward after struggle.

For those in a bit more of a hurry, I also like struggling and wining, taking charge as only a man over a woman can, either with a lot of resistence and quickly, or slowly via command and calm control.

I can scale from mild to more severe, so all experiences welcome. I'd much rather prefer an occasional thing that starts out slower and ripens over time, than something freaky and intense that starts out right away.