All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find it was vanity: but the dreamers of day are dangerous men, for they may act their dream with open eyes, to make it possible." T. E. Lawrence Hello; my name is Crescerea and I am a heteroflexible submissive. The top of my profile says slave largely because I have the capacity and desire to be a slave, for the right Master, in the right time and place. I have been active in the lifestyle for several years and was an active member of local communities for a time in Hampton Roads, Richmond and D.C. Lately, my ideals of community have changed, and my goals as well. I am active, just more selectively. I am a large proponent of education both within the lifestyle and outside of it. I believe learning about the lifestyle is paramount to being a successful member of this lifestyle, and an important aspect of any relationship. I have tried to break down my profile into a few important key points, an introduction to the most important components to me.

KINKY INTERESTS My interests in play are rather versatile. I have experienced so much in the last few years, and continue to learn in each new interaction. Some of the things I can easily say I enjoy are: violet wand, fire, breath play, liquid nitrogen, knives/claws/nails, rope and other forms of bondage, zone mummification, flogging/impact, light to medium humiliation play, primal play, mental/psychological/hypnotism, rough body play, orgasm control/denial and forced orgasms. A few specific things I would like to mention: I have a medium pain tolerance, especially in dealing with impact. I fell out of practice of playing for awhile, so I'm building back up. I can handle a good amount of thud, and with warm-up I can handle some sting, like caning. I love knives, but I'm not sure about cutting yet. I absolutely adore the feeling and pressure of knives running up and down my body, especially when tied up. I'm looking to expand my knowledge and understanding of knife play, especially in the context of fear/intimidation play. A newer interest I have developed is that of cigars. I find the culture and atmosphere of cigar smoking to be sensual and soothing, even erotic in the right context. I've been learning quite a bit about cigars recently, how to properly maintain a humidor, how to select and distinguish cigars, and how to prepare a cigar. I love learning about particular favorites of cigar enthusiasts, and am always open to suggestions.
VANILLA INTERESTS I love to read, everything and anything. I am a full time college student, so research has kind of taken over my life the last few years. I am studying forensic psychology, so current events, studies, trends, and crime reports are a standard part of course material. When I do get the chance to read for fun I'm just as likely to choose a classic as I am to choose Laurell K Hamilton. I have a particular fondness for the Vampire Chronicles series, and also for Edgar Allen Poe, especially his poetry. I also enjoy many other activities, concerts, oceanfronts, swimming, walking, hiking, or just riding around (in a car, my motorcycle bit the dust three years ago, and I'm still saving for a new one) are all fun parts of my life. I like trying new things, whether it be food, or a new activity, or just going to a new park...I'm always up for an adventure. I LOVE MUSIC!!! I like all kinds and am never adverse to hearing something new. I listen to everything from country, to Marilyn Manson. l truly enjoy bands such as Abney Park and Alestorm, but am looking to find more authentic steampunk oriented music. I also like folk music, and Gaelic inspired tunes such as Coyote Run , and the Orthodox Celts. I will listen to just about anything once, and usually twice just to be sure. I enjoy musicals such as Wicked, Rent, Phantom of the Opera, and Hairspray and Camelot... Classic music (Chopin, Tchaikovsky, etc...) and hard rock (Disturbed, Device, Three Days Grace...) In short, I am always expanding my collection and love new material. I also am somewhat experienced as a candle maker, and after a two year hiatus have potentially found a new manufacturer for my preferred wax. Within the next few months I am hoping to start making candles again, with the added bonus that many of the candles I make are safe, and (hopefully) ideal for wax play. (I say ideal because until I work with the wax I can't know for sure.)

RELATIONSHIP I am seeking the possibility of a D/s or possibly M/s style dynamic. I'm not sure in complete what to put here, but I will start with a general idea of what I am hoping to discover in/with a partner. Within the lifestyle I am an eager, excitable and determined individual. When I see something I want to learn, I go, and learn. I have met a few amazing teacher's both kinky and academic who have encouraged and fostered this within me. Essentially, I desire a partner who wants to learn and experience things together. One of the most important components of what makes me as a submissive tick, is that I am service oriented. I love play and sexual intimacy...but at my core, I am most happy when I am providing a service. That service could be as simple as fixing you a plate of food, or getting you a drink, or as elaborate as we negotiate for. I have a strong understanding of protocol, and am equally comfortable in a low protocol as a high protocol situation. I truly love to cook and would love to cook for another again. I have some bartender's experience, and I'm gaining skills in several different drinks and styles. I love to practice and refine these skills, especially when it means I'm making some new type of cuisine. Outside of that, I'd like a Dominant type who is comfortable with themselves both in and out of the lifestyle itself. I can be serious and reserved when expected, but I also enjoy those low key times. I enjoy laughing, and I can be (very) cheeky sometimes. I love new things, and experiencing those with someone strengthens that closeness and enjoyment of the experience itself.

FINAL THOUGHTS According to Myer-Briggs I have an INTJ personality type. This is an overall idea of me, not the entirety of who I am or what I'm looking for. I am almost always willing to meet potential opportunities at least half-way or more, if it becomes beneficial to both parties. I'm still learning how best to portray myself, and put myself out there, especially in this wide world we call kink. I love conversation, if for nothing else than conversation. If something I have said interests you, please drop a message, I'd love to chat! Sadly Necessary Note: When I say message, I don't mean 'yo slut wat up' or any variation thereof. Please attempt some kind of actual English, and have at least some substance to your message.