There is little reason for a journal on here. Why? Few men take the time to read and learn someone online ,let alone reading about them. All just want to jump right into phone chat.....and then in person meet.....and yes, most into bed.

And then , there are  those who You learn online but are too far away to see for real. What is the purpose?

Or, there are those You meet and find they are not what they seemed to be online.

They say "Someday HE will come when You least expect it" and as the song says....."Someday Your Prince will come"

Afraid I have to be like the Grinch at Xmas.........BaHumbug!

However, to me, D/s, BDSM is very real and should involve only two people at least to begin. Once you have tasted the deepness that such a relationship can obtain YOU will settle for nothing else........

it like being deprived of water. There are many other liquids that will sustain your life, but few that will fullfill.